Wednesday, 28 May 2008

Do you have his time?


As you got up this morning,I watched you,and hoped you would talk to me,even if it was just a few words,asking my opinion or thanking me for something good that happened in your life yesterday.But I noticed you were too busy,trying to find the right outfit to wear.

When you ran around the house getting ready,I knew there would be a few minutes for you to stop and say hello,but you were to busy.At one point you had to wait fifteen minutes with nothing to do except sit in a chair.Then I saw you spring to your feet.I thought you wanted to talk to me but you ran to the phone and called a friend to get the latest gossip instead.I
watched patiently all day long.With all your activities I guess you were too busy to say anything
to me.

I noticed that before lunch you looked around, maybe you felt embarrassed to talk to me,that is why you didn't bow your head.You glanced three or four tables over and you noticed some of your friends talking to me briefly before they ate,but you didn't.That's okay.There is still more time left,and I hope that you will talk to me yet.

You went home and it seems as if you had lots of things to do.After a few of them were done,you
turned on the TV.I don't know if you like TV or not, just about anything goes there and you spend a lot of time each day in front of it not thinking about anything,just enjoying the show.I waited patiently again as you watched the TV and ate your meal,but again you didn't talk to me.

Bedtime I guess you felt too tired.After you said goodnight to your family you plopped into bed and fell asleep in no time.That's okay because you may not realise that I am always there for you...I've got patience, more than you will ever know....I even want to teach you how to be patient with others as well.

I love you so much that I wait everyday for a nod, prayer or thought,or a thankful part of your heart. It is hard to have a one-sided conversation. Well,you are getting up once again.Once again I will wait,with nothing but love for you.Hoping that today you will give me some time.Have a nice day!

Your Father,

GOD

I do Love God. He is my source of existence and Saviour. He keeps me functioning each and everyday. Without Him, I will be nothing. Without him, I am nothing; but with Him I can do all things through Christ that strengthens me. (Phil 4:13)

Tuesday, 27 May 2008

Does Love need a Reason...??


Some people never understand.Times without number i have been faced with this question whether in my relationship or during counselling sessions.Why do you really love me.Most times when i search my heart after facing such question,i cannot always come up with an answer even my wife to be want to know,and i always tell her that the fact that i cannot explain it confirm the hand of God in what am doing.

The depth of the riches both of the wisdom and knowledge of God! how unsearchable are his judgments,and his ways past finding out!Rom 11:33

Once a lady when having a conversation with her lover, asked:
Lady :Why do you like me..? Why do you love me?
Man : I can t tell the reason.. but I really like you..
Lady :You can t even tell me the reason... how can you say you like me? How can you say you love me?
Man : I really don t know the reason, but I can prove that I love U.
Lady :Proof? No! I want you to tell me the reason. My friend s boyfriend can tell her why he loves her but not you!
Man :Ok..ok!!! Erm... because you are beautiful,because your voice is sweet,because you are caring,loving,thoughtful,because of your smile and because of your every movements.

The lady felt very satisfied with the man's answer.Unfortunately,a few days later,the Lady met with an accident and went in comma.The Guy then placed a letter by her side,here is the content:Darling,Because of your sweet voice that I love you...Now can you talk? No! Therefore I cannot love you.Because of your care and concern that I like you..Now that you cannot show them,therefore I cannot love you.Because of your smile,because of your every movements that I love you..Now can you smile? Now can you move?No,therefore I cannot love you...

If love needs a reason, like now,There is no reason for me to love you anymore.

Does love need a reason? NO!

Therefore,I still LOVE YOU...

"True love never dies for it is lust that fades away. Love bonds for a lifetime but lust just pushes away"

Immature love says: 'I love you because I need you.'Mature love says 'I need you because I love you.''Fate Determines Who Comes Into Our Lives, But Heart Determines Who Stays...'

Tuesday, 20 May 2008

Mothers Day.


Why are you crying, a young boy asked his Mom?
"Because I'm a woman," she told him."I don't understand," he said.His Mom just hugged him and said,"And you never will, but that's O.K.".......

Later the little boy asked his father,
"Why does Mom seem to cry for no reason?"."All women cry for no reason," was all his Dad could say......The little boy grew up and became a man,still wondering why women cry.

Finally he put in a call to God and when God got back to him, he asked "God, why do women cry so easily?"

GOD answered.... ..
"When I made woman,
I decided she had to be special.
I made her shoulders
strong enough to carry
the weight of the world, yet,
made her arms gentle enough to give comfort...
I gave her the inner strength
to endure childbirth
and the rejection
that many times will come
even from her own children.
I gave her a hardness
that allows her
to keep going and take care
of her family and friends,
even when everyone else gives up, through sickness and fatigue without
complaining. ...
I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all
circumstances. Even when her child has hurt her badly....
She has the very special power to make a child's boo-boo feel better and
to quell a teenager's anxieties and fears....
I gave her strength to care for her husband, despite faults
and I fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart....
I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but
sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him
unfalteringly. ...
For all of this hard work,
I also gave her a tear to shed.
It is hers to use
whenever needed and !
it is her only weakness....
When you see her cry,
tell her how much you love her, and all she does for everyone, and even though
she may still cry, you will have made her heart feel good.

She is special!

Please get all the mothers you know to read this,special women in your life.But, tell men also so they will understand how wonderful women are.

Love Your Mother Always And Keep Her Smiling

Monday, 19 May 2008

Fairy tale for Managers (Management 03)

A farmer had the misfortune Of owing a large sum of money to a village moneylender.The Moneylender,who was old and ugly, fancied the farmer's beautiful Daughter.So he proposed a bargain.He said he would forgo the farmer's debt if he could marry his Daughter. Both the farmer and his daughter were horrified by the Proposal.So the cunning money-lender suggested that they let Providence decide the matter.He told them that he would put a black Pebble and a white pebble into an empty money bag. Then the girl would Have to pick one pebble from the bag.

1) If she picked the black pebble, she would become his wife and her father's debt would be forgiven.

2) If she picked the white pebble she need not marry him and her father's debt would still be forgiven.

3) But if she refused to pick a pebble, her father would be thrown into Jail.

They were standing on a pebble strewn path in the farmer's field.As They talked, the moneylender bent over to pick up two pebbles.As he Picked them up,the sharp-eyed girl noticed that he had picked up two Black pebbles and put them into the bag.He then asked the girl to pick A pebble from the bag.Now,imagine that you were standing in the field. What would you have Done if you were the girl? If you had to advise her,what would you Have told her?

Careful analysis would produce three possibilities:

1. The girl should refuse to take a pebble.

2. The girl should show that there were two black pebbles in the bag And expose the money-lender as a cheat.

3. The girl should pick a black pebble and sacrifice herself in order To save her father from his debt and imprisonment.

Take a moment to ponder over the story.The above story is used with The hope that it will make us appreciate the difference between lateral And logical thinking.The girl's dilemma cannot be solved with Traditional logical thinking. Think of the consequences if she chooses


The above logical answers...
What would you recommend to the Girl to do? Well, here is what she did ....

The girl put her hand into the moneybag and drew out a pebble.Without Looking at it,she fumbled and let it fall onto the pebble-strewn path Where it immediately became lost among all the other pebbles.

"Oh, how clumsy of me," she said."But never mind,if you look into the Bag for the one that is left,you will be able to tell which pebble I Picked."Since the remaining pebble is black,it must be assumed that she had Picked the white one.And since the money-lender dared not admit his Dishonesty,the girl changed what seemed an impossible situation into An extremely advantageous one.


MORAL OF THE STORY:
Most complex problems do have a solution. It is only that we don't Attempt to think.

Friday, 16 May 2008

Lessons in Logic

Practice makes perfect.....
But nobody's perfect..... .

so why practice?

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If it's true that we are here to help others,
then what exactly are the others here for?

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Since light travels faster than sound,
people appear bright until you hear them speak.

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How come "abbreviated" is such a long word?
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Money is not everything.
There's Mastercard & Visa.

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Behind every successful man, there is a woman
And behind every unsuccessful man, there are two.

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Never put off the work till tomorrow
what you can put off today.

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"Your future depends on your dreams"
So go to sleep

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"Work fascinates me"
I can look at it for hours

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God made relatives;
Thank God we can choose our friends.

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The more you learn, the more you know,
The more you know, the more you forget

The more you forget, the less you know
So.. why learn.
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A bus station is where a bus stops.
A train station is where a train stops.

On my desk, I have a work station....
what more can I say...

Thursday, 8 May 2008

Mind Job(See how far you can go).


1. A murderer is condemned to death.He has to choose between three rooms.The first is full of raging fires, the second is full of assassins with loaded guns, and the third is full of lions that haven't eaten in 3 years.Which room is safest for him?

2. A woman shoots her husband.Then she holds him under water for Over 5 minutes. Finally,she hangs him.But 5 minutes later they both go out together and enjoy a wonderful dinner together.How can this be?

3. What is black when you buy it,red when you use it,and gray when you throw it away?

4. Can you name three consecutive days without using the words Monday,Tuesday,Wednesday,Thursday,Friday,Saturday,or Sunday?

5. This is an unusual paragraph.I'm curious how quickly you can find out what is so unusual about it.It looks so plain you would think nothing was wrong with it. In fact,nothing is wrong with it! It is unusual though.Study it,and think about it,but you still may not find anything odd.But if you work at it a bit,you might find out.

Try to do so without any coaching!

DON'T PEEP...

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ANSWERS:

1. The third. Lions that haven't eaten in three years are dead.

2. The woman was a photographer.She shot a picture of her husband,developed it and hung it up to dry.

3. Charcoal

4. Sure you can:Yesterday,Today,and Tomorrow!

5. The letter "e," which is the most common letter in the English language,does not appear once in the long paragraph

Wednesday, 30 April 2008

"Self Appraisal"(Management 02)


A little boy went into a drug store,reached for a soda carton and pulled it over to the telephone.He climbed onto the carton so that he could reach the buttons on the phone and proceeded to punch in phone numbers.

The store-owner observed and listened to the conversation:
Boy: "Lady,Can you give me the job of cutting your lawn?
Woman: (at the other end of the phone line): "I already have someone to cut my lawn."
Boy: "Lady, I will cut your lawn for half the price of the person who cuts your lawn now."
Woman: I'm very satisfied with the person who is presently cutting my lawn.
Boy: (with more perseverance) : "Lady, I'll even sweep
your curb and your sidewalk, so on Sunday you will
have the prettiest lawn in all of Palm beach , Florida."
Woman: No, thank you.

With a smile on his face, the little boy replaced the receiver. The store-owner, who was listening to all this, walked over to the boy.
Store Owner: "Son... I like your attitude; I like that positive spirit and would like to offer you a job."

Boy: "No thanks,
Store Owner: But you were really pleading for one.
Boy: No Sir, I was just checking my performance at the
job I already have. I am the one who is working for that lady I was talking to!"

This is what we call "Self Appraisal"

Why Struggle?

Long time ago, there was an Emperor who told his horseman that if he could ride on his horse and cover as much land area as he likes,then the Emperor would give him the area of land he has covered.Sure enough,the horseman quickly jumped onto his horse and rode as fast as possible to cover as much land area as he could.He kept on riding and riding, whipping the horse to go as fast as possible.When he was hungry or tired,he did not stop because he wanted to cover as much area as possible.

It Came to a point when he had covered a substantial area and he was exhausted and was dying.Then he asked himself,"Why did I push myself so hard to cover so much land area? Now I am dying and I only need a very small area to bury myself."The above story is similar with the journey of our Life.We push very hard everyday to make more money,to gain power and recognition.We neglect our health, time with our family and to appreciate the surrounding beauty and the hobbies we love.

One day when we look back, we will realize that we don't really need that much, but then we cannot turn back time for what we have missed.Life is not about making money,acquiring power or recognition.Life is definitely not about work!Work is only necessary to keep us living so as to enjoy the beauty and pleasures of life.Life is a balance of Work and Play, Family and Personal time.

You have to decide how you want to balance your Life.Define your priorities, realize what you are able to compromise but always let some of your decisions be based on your instincts.Happiness is the meaning and the purpose of Life,the whole aim of human existence.So,take it easy,do what you want to do and appreciate nature.Life is fragile,Life is short.Do not take Life for granted. Live a balanced lifestyle and enjoy Life!

Watch your thoughts;they become words.

Watch your words;they become actions.

Watch your actions;they become habits.

Watch your habits;they become character

Watch your character;it becomes your destiny

So enjoy every day as yours???.

Wednesday, 23 April 2008

This is no laughing matter!!


1. Losing all your friends
One evening, a man comes home, finds his wife with his friend in bed. He shot his friend and killed him.His wife says "If you behave like this, you will lose ALL your friends."

2. Brother wanted.
A small boy wrote to Santa Claus,"send me a brother"....Santa wrote back, "SEND ME YOUR MOTHER"....

3. Meaning of WIFE.
Husband asks, "Do you know the meaning of WIFE? It means 'Without Information Fighting Everytime'!"Wife replies, "No, it means 'With Idiot For Ever'!!!"

4. Importance of a period
Teacher: "Do you know the importance of a period?"
Kid: "Yeah, once my sister said she has missed one, my mom fainted, dad got a heart attack & our driver ran away."

5. Confident vs. confidential
A young boy asks his Dad, "What is the difference between confident and confidential?"
Dad says, "You are my son, I'm confident about that. Your friend over there, is also my son, that's confidential!"

6. Anger management?
Husband: "When I get mad at you, you never fight back. How do you control your anger?"
Wife: "I clean the toilet."
Husband: "How does that help?"
Wife: "I use your toothbrush."

LOL

Tuesday, 22 April 2008

True Miracle.

A Muslim man in Egypt killed his wife and then buried her with their infant baby and 8-year old daughter. The girls were buried alive! He then reported to the police that an uncle killed the kids. 15 days later, another family member died. When they went to bury him, they found the 2 little girls under the sand - ALIVE !The country is outraged over the incident, and the man will be executed.

The older girl was asked how she had survived. "A man wearing shiny white clothes, with bleeding wounds in his hands, came every day to feed us. He woke up my mom so she could nurse my sister," she said.She was interviewed on Egyptian national TV, by a veiled Muslim woman news anchor. She said on public TV, "This was none other than Jesus,because nobody else does things like this!"

Muslims believe Isa (Jesus) would do this, but the wounds mean He really was crucified, and it's clear also that He is alive! But, it's also clear that the child could not make up a story like this, and there is no way these children could have survived without a true miracle. Muslim leaders are going to have a hard time to figure out what to do with
this, and the popularity of the Passion movie doesn't help! With Egypt at the centre of the media and education in the Middle East , you can be sure this story will spread. Christ is still turning the world upside down!

Please let this story be shared.

Monday, 21 April 2008

Auto and Tyre Industry reports.


Incar, intra and Rietzcot for sometime have witnessed no activity on the stock exchange due to losses declared after their financial year,as a matter of fact only Reitzcot had 2 deals as at yesterday. Incar and intra were not traded. Those companies are worth about 6- 13 million(Not too sure), so decision to buy would be based on sentiments/guts and not because of their figures,they have no earnings, don't make profit,they don't release financial reports,so no figures to calculate,we can as well say they are running bankrupt.

RTBriscoe has an edge over Dunlop, cos of infrastructural issues eminent in the Nigerian economy.

Michelin had to pack their bag because of power, they had been declaring losses so had to leave, also dunlop has been declaring losses for the past 2 years, so earning per share has dropped.

In all RTbriscoe is the broker's buy, recommended for this week.

Monday, 14 April 2008

Friends

We all know or knew someone like this!!One day, when I was a freshman in high school,I saw a kid from my class was walking home from school.His name was Kyle. It looked like he was carrying all of his books.I thought to myself,'Why would anyone bring home all his books on a Friday?He must really be a nerd.'I had quite a weekend planned (parties and a football game with my friends tomorrow afternoon),so I shrugged my shoulders and went on.

As I was walking, I saw a bunch of kids running toward him.They ran at him,knocking all his books out of his arms and tripping him so he landed in the dirt.His glasses went flying,and I saw them land in the grass about ten feet from him.He looked up and I saw this terrible sadness in his eyes.My heart went out to him. So,I jogged over to him as he crawled around looking for his glasses,and I saw a tear in his eye.As I handed him his glasses, I said, 'Those guys are jerks.They really should get lives.He looked at me and said,'Hey thanks!'

There was a big smile on his face.It was one of those smiles that showed real gratitude.I helped him pick up his books, and asked him where he lived.As it turned out, he lived near me, so I asked him why I had never seen him before.He said he had gone to private school before now.I would have never hung out with a private school kid before.We talked all the way home, and I carried some of his books.He turned out to be a pretty cool kid.I asked him if he wanted to play a
little football with my friends He said yes.We hung out all weekend and the more

I got to know Kyle, the more I liked him,and my friends thought the same of him.Monday morning came, and there was Kyle with the huge stack of books again.I stopped him and said, 'Boy,you are gonna really build some serious muscles with this pile of books everyday!'He just laughed and handed me half the books.Over the next four years, Kyle and I became best friends...When we were seniors,we began to think about college.Kyle decided on Georgetown and I was going to Duke.I knew that we would always be friends, that the miles would never be a
problem.He was going to be a doctor and I was going for business on a football scholarship.

Kyle was valedictorian of our class.I teased him all the time about being a nerd.He had to prepare a speech for graduation.I was so glad it wasn't me having to get up there and speak Graduation day, I saw Kyle.He looked great.He was one of those guys that really found himself during high school.He filled out and actually looked good in glasses.He had more dates than I had and all the girls loved him.Boy,sometimes I was jealous!Today was one of those days.I could see that he was nervous about his speech.So,I smacked him on the back and said,'Hey,big guy,you'll be great!'He looked at me with one of those looks (the really grateful one) and smiled.'Thanks,' he said.As he started his speech,he cleared his throat,and began 'Graduation is a time to thank those who helped you make it through those tough years.Your parents, your teachers, your siblings, maybe a coach...but mostly your friends...I am here to tell all of you that being a friend to someone is the best gift you can give them.I am going to tell you a story.'I just looked at my friend with disbelief as he told the story of the first day we met.

He had planned to kill himself over the weekend.He talked of how he had cleaned out his locker so his Mom wouldn't have to do it later and was carrying his stuff home.He looked hard at me and gave me a little smile.'Thankfully, I was saved.My friend saved me from doing the unspeakable.'I heard the gasp go through the crowd as this handsome,popular boy told us all about his weakest moment.I saw his Mom and dad looking at me and smiling that same grateful smile.Not until that moment did I realize it's depth.

Never underestimate the power of your actions.With one small gesture you can change a person's life.For better or for worse.God puts us all in each others lives to impact one another in some way.Look for Good in others.This is a serious thought line for me as i reflect on me and my friends.How many times have i missed the opportunity to be a blessing to a dear friend.How many times do i have the opportunity to lend a helping hand and i folded my arm.I can remember a clear example of when robbers went to my friend house and they took away all their clothes,what they had left was just what they had on their back,i could say man here take a trouser and a shirt.My excuse was that we don't wear the same size of clothes.

Also again i went to my friend school and i met him hungry and close to exams.Meanwhile my grand dad just gave me some money for my schooling again i have an excuse that i will have to show the money to my dad before i touch it.Till today my foolishness is still hunting me.Though i have had several opportunities to make corrections which i did,but every time i remember,i always feel terribly bad.

You now have two choices,you can:

1)Pick up your phone and call all your friends you have not contacted for a while.

2) Pretend as if it didn't touch your heart.

As for me,I took choice number 1.'Friends are angels who lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly.'There is no beginning or end.. Yesterday is history.Tomorrow is a mystery.Today is a gift.

Friday, 28 March 2008

Health - Important Tips

The Benefits obtained from the tips below are an enjoyable day, good appetite,complete digestion, feeling fine all time;high energy levels, de-stressed day and good precious deep sleep every night.

Answer the phone by LEFT ear
Do not drink coffee TWICE a day
Do not take pills with COOL water
Do not have HUGE meals after 5pm
Reduce the amount of TEA you consume
Reduce the amount of OILY food you consume
Drink more WATER in the morning, less at night
Keep your distance from hand phone CHARGERS
Do not use headphones/earphone for LONG period of time
Best sleeping time is from 10pm at night to 6am in the morning
Do not lie down immediately after taking medicine before sleeping
When battery is down to the LAST grid/bar, do not answer the phone as the radiation is 1000 times

Tell everyone you CARE about.

Wednesday, 19 March 2008

Newton in romantic mood......

Universal law:
"Love can neither be created nor be destroyed; only it can transfer from One girlfriend to another girlfriend with some loss of money "
First law:
"A boy in love with a girl, continue to be in love with her and a girl in love with a boy, continue to be in love with him, until or unless any external agent(brother or father of the gal) comes into play and break the legs of the boy. "
Second law:
"The rate of change of intensity of love of a girl towards a boy is directly proportional to the instantaneous bank balance of the boy and the direction of this love is same to as increment or decrement of the bank balance. "
Third law:
"The force applied while proposing a girl by a boy is equal and opposite to the force applied by the girl while slap.

Monday, 17 March 2008

Coincedence or Art of God.

15. Childhood Book: While American novelist Anne Parrish was browsing bookstores in Paris in the 1920s, she came upon a book that was one of her childhood favorites - Jack Frost and Other Stories. She picked up the old book and showed it to her husband, telling him of the book she fondly remembered as a child. Her husband took the book, opened it, and on the flyleaf found the inscription: "Anne Parrish, 209 N. Weber Street, Colorado Springs." It was Anne's very own book.

14. Poker Luck: In 1858, Robert Fallon was shot dead, an act of vengeance by those with whom he was playing poker. Fallon, they claimed, had won the $600 pot through cheating. With Fallon's seat empty and none of the other players willing to take the now unlucky $600, they found a new player to take Fallon's place and staked him with the dead man's $600. By the time the police had arrived to investigate the killing, the new player had turned the $600 into $2,200 in winnings. The police demanded the original $600 to pass on to Fallon's next of kin - only to discover that the new player turned out to be Fallon's son, who had not seen his father in seven years!

13. Twin Deaths: In 2002, Seventy-year- old twin brothers died within hours of one another after separate accidents on the same road in northern Finland. The first of the twins died when he was hit by a lorry while riding his bike in Raahe, 600 kilometres north of the capital, Helsinki. He died just 1.5km from the spot where his brother was killed. "This is simply a historic coincidence. Although the road is a busy one, accidents don't occur every day," police officer Marja-Leena Huhtala told Reuters. "It made my hair stand on end when I heard the two were brothers, and identical twins at that. It came to mind that perhaps someone from upstairs had a say in this," she said.

12. Poe Coincidence: In the 19th century, the famous horror writer, Egdar Allan Poe, wrote a book called 'The narrative of Arthur Gordon Pym'. It was about four survivors of a shipwreck who were in an open boat for many days before they decided to kill and eat the cabin boy whose name was Richard Parker. Some years later, in 1884, the yawl, Mignonette, foundered, with only four survivors, who were in an open boat for many days. Eventually the three senior members of the crew killed and ate the cabin boy. The name of the cabin boy was Richard Parker.

11. Royal Coincidence: In Monza, Italy, King Umberto I, went to a small restaurant for dinner, accompanied by his aide-de-camp, General Emilio Ponzia- Vaglia. When the owner took King Umberto's order, the King noticed that he and the restaurant owner were virtual doubles, in face and in build. Both men began discussing the striking resemblance between each other and found many more similarities.

1. Both men were born on the same day, of the same year, (March 14th, 1844).
2. Both men had been born in the same town.
3. Both men married a woman with same name, Margherita.
4. The restaurateur opened his restaurant on the same day that King Umberto was crowned King of Italy.
5. On the 29th July 1900, King Umberto was informed that the restaurateur had died that day in a mysterious shooting accident, and as he expressed his regret, an anarchist in the crowd then assassinated him.

10. Falling Baby: In 1930s Detroit, a man named Joseph Figlock was to become an amazing figure in a young (and, apparently, incredibly careless) mother's life. As Figlock was walking down the street, the mother's baby fell from a high window onto Figlock. The baby's fall was broken and Figlock and the baby were unharmed. A year later, the selfsame baby fell from the selfsame window, again falling onto Mr. Figlock as he was passing beneath. Once again, both of them survived the event.

9. Mystery Monk: In 19th century Austria, a near-famous painter named Joseph Aigner attempted suicide on several occasions. During his first attempt to hang himself at the age of 18, a mysterious Capuchin monk interrupted Aigner. And again at age 22, the very same monk prevented him from hanging himself. Eight years later, he was sentenced to the gallows for his political activities. But again, his life was saved by the intervention of the same monk. At age 68, Joseph Aigner finally succeeded in suicide, using a pistol to shoot himself. Not surprisingly, the very same Capuchin monk - a man whose name Aigner never even knew, conducted his funeral ceremony.

8. Photographic Coincidence: A German mother who photographed her infant son in 1914 left the film to be developed at a store in Strasbourg. In those days some film plates were sold individually. World War I broke out and unable to return to Strasbourg, the woman gave up the picture for lost. Two years later she bought a film plate in Frankfurt, over 100 miles away, to take a picture of her newborn daughter. When developed the film turned out to be a double exposure, with the picture of her daughter superimposed on the earlier picture of her son. Through some incredible twist of fate, her original film, never developed, had been mislabeled as unused, and had eventually been resold to her.

7. Book Find: In 1973, actor Anthony Hopkins agreed to appear in "The Girl From Petrovka", based on a novel by George Feifer. Unable to find a copy of the book anywhere in London, Hopkins was surprised to discover one lying on a bench in a train station. It turned out to be George Feifer's own annotated (personal) copy, which Feifer had lent to a friend, and which had been stolen from his friend's car.

6. Twins: The twin brothers, Jim Lewis and Jim Springer, were separated at birth, adopted by different families. Unknown to each other, both families named the boys James. Both James grew up not knowing of the other, yet both sought law-enforcement training both had abilities in mechanical drawing and carpentry, and each had married women named Linda. Both had sons, one of who was named James Alan and the other named James Allan. The twin brothers also divorced their wives and married other women - both named Betty. And they both owned dogs which they named Toy.

5. Revenge Killing: In 1883, Henry Ziegland broke off a relationship with his girlfriend who, out of distress, committed suicide. The girl's enraged brother hunted down Ziegland and shot him. Believing he had killed Ziegland, the brother then took his own life. In fact, however, Ziegland had not been killed. The bullet had only grazed his face, lodging into a tree. It was a narrow escape. Years later, Ziegland decided to cut down the same tree, which still had the bullet in it. The huge tree seemed so formidable that he decided to blow it up with dynamite. The explosion propelled the bullet into Ziegland's head, killing him.

4. Golden Scarab: From The Structure and Dynamics of the Psyche: "A young woman I was treating had, at a critical moment, a dream in which she was given a golden scarab. While she was telling me this dream I sat with my back to the closed window. Suddenly I heard a noise behind me, like a gentle tapping. I turned round and saw a flying insect knocking against the windowpane from outside. I opened the window and caught the creature in the air as it flew in. It was the nearest analogy to the golden scarab that one finds in our latitudes, a scarabaeid beetle, the common rose-chafer (Cetonia aurata) which contrary to its usual habits had evidently felt an urge to get into a dark room at this particular moment. I must admit that nothing like it ever happened to me before or since, and that the dream of the patient has remained unique in my experience." - Carl Jung

3. Taxi: In 1975, while riding a moped in Bermuda, a man was accidentally struck and killed by a taxi. One year later, this man's brother was killed in the very same way. In fact, he was riding the very same moped. And to stretch the odds even further, the very same taxi driven by the same driver - and even carrying the very same passenger struck him!

2. Hotel Discovery: In 1953, television reporter Irv Kupcinet was in London to cover the coronation of Ellizabeth II. In one of the drawers in his room at the Savoy he found some items that, by their identification, belonged to a man named Harry Hannin. Coincidentally, Harry Hannin - a basketball star with the famed Harlem Globetrotters - was a good friend of Kupcinet's. But the story has yet another twist. Just two days later, and before he could tell Hannin of his lucky discovery, Kupcinet received a letter from Hannin. In the letter, Hannin told Kucinet that while staying at the Hotel Meurice in Paris, he found in a drawer a tie - with Kupcinet's name on it.

1. Historical Coincidence: The lives of Thomas Jefferson and John Adams, two of America's founders. Jefferson crafted the Declaration of Independence, showing drafts of it to Adams, who (with Benjamin Franklin) helped to edit and hone it. The Continental Congress approved the document on July 4, 1776. Surprisingly, both Jefferson and Adams died on the same day, July 4, 1826 - exactly 50 years from the signing of the Declaration of Independence.

Act of God or pure Coincedence

1. Childhood Book: While American novelist Anne Parrish was browsing bookstores in Paris in the 1920s, she came upon a book that was one of her childhood favorites - Jack Frost and Other Stories. She picked up the old book and showed it to her husband, telling him of the book she fondly remembered as a child. Her husband took the book, opened it, and on the flyleaf found the inscription: "Anne Parrish, 209 N. Weber Street, Colorado Springs." It was Anne's very own book.

2. Poker Luck: In 1858, Robert Fallon was shot dead, an act of vengeance by those with whom he was playing poker. Fallon, they claimed, had won the $600 pot through cheating. With Fallon's seat empty and none of the other players willing to take the now unlucky $600, they found a new player to take Fallon's place and staked him with the dead man's $600. By the time the police had arrived to investigate the killing, the new player had turned the $600 into $2,200 in winnings. The police demanded the original $600 to pass on to Fallon's next of kin - only to discover that the new player turned out to be Fallon's son, who had not seen his father in seven years!

3. Twin Deaths: In 2002, Seventy-year- old twin brothers died within hours of one another after separate accidents on the same road in northern Finland. The first of the twins died when he was hit by a lorry while riding his bike in Raahe, 600 kilometres north of the capital, Helsinki. He died just 1.5km from the spot where his brother was killed. "This is simply a historic coincidence. Although the road is a busy one, accidents don't occur every day," police officer Marja-Leena Huhtala told Reuters. "It made my hair stand on end when I heard the two were brothers, and identical twins at that. It came to mind that perhaps someone from upstairs had a say in this," she said.

4. Poe Coincidence: In the 19th century, the famous horror writer, Egdar Allan Poe, wrote a book called 'The narrative of Arthur Gordon Pym'. It was about four survivors of a shipwreck who were in an open boat for many days before they decided to kill and eat the cabin boy whose name was Richard Parker. Some years later, in 1884, the yawl, Mignonette, foundered, with only four survivors, who were in an open boat for many days. Eventually the three senior members of the crew killed and ate the cabin boy. The name of the cabin boy was Richard Parker.

5. Royal Coincidence: In Monza, Italy, King Umberto I, went to a small restaurant for dinner, accompanied by his aide-de-camp, General Emilio Ponzia- Vaglia. When the owner took King Umberto's order, the King noticed that he and the restaurant owner were virtual doubles, in face and in build. Both men began discussing the striking resemblance between each other and found many more similarities.
1. Both men were born on the same day, of the same year, (March 14th, 1844).
2. Both men had been born in the same town.
3. Both men married a woman with same name, Margherita.
4. The restaurateur opened his restaurant on the same day that King Umberto was crowned King of Italy.
5. On the 29th July 1900, King Umberto was informed that the restaurateur had died that day in a mysterious shooting accident, and as he expressed his regret, an anarchist in the crowd then assassinated him.

6. Falling Baby: In 1930s Detroit, a man named Joseph Figlock was to become an amazing figure in a young (and, apparently, incredibly careless) mother's life. As Figlock was walking down the street, the mother's baby fell from a high window onto Figlock. The baby's fall was broken and Figlock and the baby were unharmed. A year later, the selfsame baby fell from the selfsame window, again falling onto Mr. Figlock as he was passing beneath. Once again, both of them survived the event.

7. Mystery Monk: In 19th century Austria, a near-famous painter named Joseph Aigner attempted suicide on several occasions. During his first attempt to hang himself at the age of 18, a mysterious Capuchin monk interrupted Aigner. And again at age 22, the very same monk prevented him from hanging himself. Eight years later, he was sentenced to the gallows for his political activities. But again, his life was saved by the intervention of the same monk. At age 68, Joseph Aigner finally succeeded in suicide, using a pistol to shoot himself. Not surprisingly, the very same Capuchin monk - a man whose name Aigner never even knew, conducted his funeral ceremony.

8. Photographic Coincidence: A German mother who photographed her infant son in 1914 left the film to be developed at a store in Strasbourg. In those days some film plates were sold individually. World War I broke out and unable to return to Strasbourg, the woman gave up the picture for lost. Two years later she bought a film plate in Frankfurt, over 100 miles away, to take a picture of her newborn daughter. When developed the film turned out to be a double exposure, with the picture of her daughter superimposed on the earlier picture of her son. Through some incredible twist of fate, her original film, never developed, had been mislabeled as unused, and had eventually been resold to her.

9. Book Find: In 1973, actor Anthony Hopkins agreed to appear in "The Girl From Petrovka", based on a novel by George Feifer. Unable to find a copy of the book anywhere in London, Hopkins was surprised to discover one lying on a bench in a train station. It turned out to be George Feifer's own annotated (personal) copy, which Feifer had lent to a friend, and which had been stolen from his friend's car.

10. Twins: The twin brothers, Jim Lewis and Jim Springer, were separated at birth, adopted by different families. Unknown to each other, both families named the boys James. Both James grew up not knowing of the other, yet both sought law-enforcement training both had abilities in mechanical drawing and carpentry, and each had married women named Linda. Both had sons, one of who was named James Alan and the other named James Allan. The twin brothers also divorced their wives and married other women - both named Betty. And they both owned dogs which they named Toy.

11. Revenge Killing: In 1883, Henry Ziegland broke off a relationship with his girlfriend who, out of distress, committed suicide. The girl's enraged brother hunted down Ziegland and shot him. Believing he had killed Ziegland, the brother then took his own life. In fact, however, Ziegland had not been killed. The bullet had only grazed his face, lodging into a tree. It was a narrow escape. Years later, Ziegland decided to cut down the same tree, which still had the bullet in it. The huge tree seemed so formidable that he decided to blow it up with dynamite. The explosion propelled the bullet into Ziegland's head, killing him.

12. Golden Scarab: From The Structure and Dynamics of the Psyche: "A young woman I was treating had, at a critical moment, a dream in which she was given a golden scarab. While she was telling me this dream I sat with my back to the closed window. Suddenly I heard a noise behind me, like a gentle tapping. I turned round and saw a flying insect knocking against the windowpane from outside. I opened the window and caught the creature in the air as it flew in. It was the nearest analogy to the golden scarab that one finds in our latitudes, a scarabaeid beetle, the common rose-chafer (Cetonia aurata) which contrary to its usual habits had evidently felt an urge to get into a dark room at this particular moment. I must admit that nothing like it ever happened to me before or since, and that the dream of the patient has remained unique in my experience." - Carl Jung

13. Taxi: In 1975, while riding a moped in Bermuda, a man was accidentally struck and killed by a taxi. One year later, this man's brother was killed in the very same way. In fact, he was riding the very same moped. And to stretch the odds even further, the very same taxi driven by the same driver - and even carrying the very same passenger struck him!

14. Hotel Discovery: In 1953, television reporter Irv Kupcinet was in London to cover the coronation of Ellizabeth II. In one of the drawers in his room at the Savoy he found some items that, by their identification, belonged to a man named Harry Hannin. Coincidentally, Harry Hannin - a basketball star with the famed Harlem Globetrotters - was a good friend of Kupcinet's. But the story has yet another twist. Just two days later, and before he could tell Hannin of his lucky discovery, Kupcinet received a letter from Hannin. In the letter, Hannin told Kucinet that while staying at the Hotel Meurice in Paris, he found in a drawer a tie - with Kupcinet's name on it.

15. Historical Coincidence: The lives of Thomas Jefferson and John Adams, two of America's founders. Jefferson crafted the Declaration of Independence, showing drafts of it to Adams, who (with Benjamin Franklin) helped to edit and hone it. The Continental Congress approved the document on July 4, 1776. Surprisingly, both Jefferson and Adams died on the same day, July 4, 1826 - exactly 50 years from the signing of the Declaration of Independence.

Monday, 10 March 2008

Out of your busy schedule

A man came home from work late, tired and irritated, to find his 5-year old son waiting for him at the door.

SON: "Daddy, may I ask you a question?"
DAD: "Yeah sure, what is it?" replied the man.
SON: "Daddy, how much do you make an hour?"
DAD: "That's none of your business. Why do you ask such a thing?"the man said angrily.
SON: "I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make an hour?"
DAD: "If you must know, I make Rs.100 an hour."
SON: "Oh," the little boy replied, with his head down.
SON: "Daddy, may I please borrow Rs.50?"

The father was furious, "If the only reason you asked that is so you can borrow some money to buy a silly toy or some other nonsense, then you march yourself straight to your room and go to bed. Think about why you are being so selfish. I work hard everyday for such this childish behavior."

The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door.The man sat down and started to get even angrier about the little boy's questions.How dare he ask such questions only to get some money?After about an hour or so, the man had calmed down, and started to think: Maybe there was something he really needed to buy with that Rs.50 and he really didn't ask for money very often. The man went to the door of the little boy's room and opened the door."Are you asleep, son?" He asked."No daddy, I'm awake," replied the boy."I've been thinking, maybe I was too hard on you earlier" said the man."It's been a long day and I took out my aggravation on you.. Here's the Rs.50 you asked for."

The little boy sat straight up, smiling. "Oh, thank you daddy!" He yelled.Then, reaching under his pillow he pulled out some crumpled up bills.The man saw that the boy already had money, started to get angry again. The little boy slowly counted out his money, and then looked up at his father."Why do you want more money if you already have some?" the father grumbled."Because I didn't have enough, but now I do," the little boy replied."Daddy, I have Rs.100 now. Can I buy an hour of your time?Please come home early tomorrow. I would like to have dinner with you."The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little son, and he begged for his forgiveness.

It's just a short reminder to all of you working so hard in life. We should not let time slip through our fingers without having spent some time with those who really matter to us, those close to our hearts.Do remember to share that Rs.100 worth of your time with someone you love.If we die tomorrow, the company that we are working for could easily replace us in a matter of days.

But the family & friends we leave behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives. And come to think of it, we pour ourselves more into work than to our family.

Friday, 7 March 2008

When you love someone.

Sometimes, you could love someone but you don't get it reciprocated.The person in question might show some signs of love too but just isn't ready to commit.For what reason,you might ask.Well,for some valid reasons,sometimes invalid reasons.But whatever the case,the person has some reason or the other.How do you feel in such a case? Well,different feelings could rave through you:


  • You could feel disappointed
  • You could feel like crying (sometimes you actually do)
  • You could feel like hating the person (remember you professed to love that same person)
  • You could feel like breaking off every form of communication with the person
  • You could feel like doing something to hurt the person
  • You could feel like hating everybody in general
  • You could feel like receding into a shell or world of your own and not reach out again

You could feel a whole lot of emotions,some on the negative, some baseless.But what are you supposed to do in such situations?Well, one thing you should realize is that the choice of any commitment is always dependent on the other person; not just on you.You shouldn't react negatively towards the person.Even if your love isn't reciprocated,that doesn't mean you can't still love them.It is possible for the relationship to be broken because of the situation but since you've professed to love the person,you just have to.The difference here is that you know your love isn't being reciprocated.At least,you should have known from the beginning that there was a risk of rejection.


You could say that this is difficult especially if the person whom you are in love with is probably in a relationship with someone else.But what can you do? Nothing.You just have to let go.If the person realizes that he/she might actually be in love with you and wants to commit, it is up to the person.You can't force someone to love you.At no point in time should you try to do anything that you might consider an act of vengeance or payback because you will end up not only hurting the person, but yourself too.Live your life freely, give as much love as possible and try to get over whatever hurt you might feel. Make friends and live life generally so as to get a balance. Definitely, your matching love would surely come up one day.Or , who knows if the person you love might come to his/her senses and realize that you are the one whom he/she loves and would be willing to commit to.

This is something to think about.

Thursday, 6 March 2008

5 Minutes Management Training

Lesson 1:
A man is getting into the shower just as his wife is finishing up her shower,when the doorbell rings.The wife quickly wraps herself in a towel and runs downstairs. Then she opens the door,there stands Bob,the next-door neighbour.Before she says a word, Bob says,'I'll give you $800 to drop that towel.'After thinking for a moment,the woman drops her towel and stands naked in front of Bob,after a few seconds,Bob hands her $800 and leaves.The woman wraps back up in the towel and goes back upstairs.When she gets to the bathroom, her husband asks,'Who was that?''It was Bob the next door neighbour,' she replies.'Great,'the husband says,'did he say anything about the $800 he owes me?'
Moral of the story:
If you share critical information pertaining to credit and risk with your shareholders in time,you may be in a position to prevent avoidable exposure.

Lesson 2:
A priest offered a Nun a lift.She got in and crossed her legs,forcing her gown to reveal a leg.The priest nearly had an accident.After controlling the car,he stealthily slid his hand up her leg.The nun said, 'Father,remember Psalm 129?'
The priest removed his hand.But,changing gears,he let his hand slide up her leg again.The nun once again said,'Father,remember Psalm 129?'The priest apologized 'Sorry sister but the flesh is weak.'Arriving at the convent,the nun sighed heavily and went on her way.On his arrival at the church,the priest rushed to look up Psalm 129.It said,'Go forth and seek,further up,you will find glory.'
Moral of the story:
If you are not well informed in your job,you might miss a great opportunity.

Lesson 3:
A sales rep,an administration clerk,and the manager are walking to lunch when they find an antique oil lamp.They rub it and a Genie comes out.The Genie says,'I'll give each of you just one wish.''Me first! Me first!' says the admin clerk. 'I want to be in the Bahamas,driving a speedboat,without a care in the world.' Puff! She's gone.'Me next! Me next!' says the sales rep.'I want to be in Hawaii,relaxing on the beach with my personal masseuse,an endless supply of Pina Coladas and the love of my life.'Puff! He's gone.'OK, you're up,'the Genie says to the manager.The manager says,'I want those two back in the office after lunch.'
Moral of the story:
Always let your boss have the first say.

Lesson 4
An eagle was sitting on a tree resting,doing nothing.A small rabbit saw the eagle and asked him,'Can I also sit like you and do nothing?'The eagle answered:'Sure,why not.'So,the rabbit sat on the ground below the eagle and rested.All of a sudden,a fox appeared,jumped on the rabbit and ate it.
Moral of the story:
To be sitting and doing nothing,you must be sitting very,very high up.

Lesson 5
A turkey was chatting with a bull.'I would love to be able to get to the top of that tree' sighed the turkey,'but I haven't got the energy.''Well,why don't you nibble on some of my droppings?'replied the bull.They're packed with nutrients.'The turkey pecked at a lump of dung,and found it actually gave him enough strength to reach the lowest branch of the tree.The next day,after eating some more dung,he reached the second branch.Finally after a fourth night,the turkey was proudly perched at the top of the tree.He was promptly spotted by a farmer,who shot him out of the tree.
Moral of the story:
Bull Sh*t might get you to the top,but it won't keep you there..

Lesson 6
A little bird was flying south for the winter.It was so cold the bird froze and fell to the ground into a large field.While he was lying there,a cow came by and dropped some dung on him.As the frozen bird lay there in the pile of cow dung,he began to realize how warm he was.The dung was actually thawing him out!He lay there all warm and happy,and soon began to sing for joy.A passing cat heard the bird singing and came to investigate.Following the sound,the cat discovered the bird under the pile of cow dung,and promptly dug him out and ate him.
Morals of the story:
(1) Not everyone who sh*ts on you is your enemy.
(2) Not everyone who gets you out of sh*t is your friend.
(3) And when you're in deep sh*t,it's best to keep your mouth shut!
(4) Not everyone love to see you happy.

THUS ENDS THE FIVE MINUTE MANAGEMENT COURSE

Tuesday, 4 March 2008

Celebrating Crooks and the Crooked:

Most Nigerians don’t celebrate their heroes. They don’t celebrate their intellectuals. They don’t celebrate their best and brightest. They don’t celebrate the honest and the hardworking. They don’t celebrate the Achebes, the Soyinkas, and the Utomis and very many others. They don’t celebrate the first-rate. Unlike a time that once was the vast majority of Nigerians no longer pay attention and deference to the learned and the philosophers amongst us.

Today, it is the Aba traders, the Mushin money-doublers, the yahoo yahoo, the Lagos dream merchants, and the political prostitutes in Abuja and all spots in between that have become our national heroes. We doff our hats to these groups of people; we prostrate before them; we kiss the ground they walk on. We hail them and encourage our children and the younger generation to look up to them.

It is as if Nigeria is bereft of honest people. Day after day, all we hear about are corrupt and thieving governors and minister and other high ranking public officials. It is as if you don’t have to be smart to be somebody. Illiteracy pays. Duplicity and mediocrity bears benefits. Lying and cheating and raping and exploitative behaviors are now perfectly acceptable. It is almost as if you don’t have to be anybody to be somebody. Striving for the best and for excellence is almost a crime.

I am thankful for the life that I knew in the Nigeria of my growing up. I thank all the men and women who had profound influence on my life, i.e. Rev George Adegboye, Chief Bola Ige, Pastor Sola Kolade, Kayode Alaka,Pastor Sam Adeyemi, Kunle Awofolajin and Deolu Akinyemi. But of course, there were others. I remember them all.

The youth of my generation let us stand up and create the Nigeria of our dream.

Friday, 29 February 2008

Why keep secret?

Secret is what you do that at least someone knows about,but you don't want some other people to know about it. Today i ask myself why do people keep secrets. There are very few things i have done in life that i really wish some do not know about,may be i can remember one or two, but eventual those i am keeping it from helped me out of it.

As a student leader back in school, i have a lot of people coming to me, to tell me stuffs about their personal life and i take pride in being able to keep their secrets.I also know some people that if you tell them anything,they will talk about it the very next day on the roof top.That reminds me of a joke about 3 pastors gisting one day.They were telling each others about their weaknesses.The first one said his weakness was that he couldn't keep his eyes and hands off the sisters in his church.The second pastor's weakness is the church money. He is always helping himself to some anytime he is in need.After saying all that, the third pastor made them realise that his own weakness is just that his mouth is like the bowel of a sick person he must vomit whatever he eats,he cannot keep a secret anything he heard he must say it.

Is keeping peoples secrets a strength or weakness? because i know that there some secret you will keep that will put you in trouble.But i do know that despite all, whatever you do and you don't want somebody to know about,don't venture into it at all, because one day the secret will be revealed and where will you be then.So please don't keep secret because once someone knows about it,it is no longer secret.How do you know that your so called secret is not what someone is sharing as a testimony.So Whatever you do it is better to fear God than to fear men.He is the all knowing where there is no man God is there.Cheers

Have a wonderful weekend.

Thursday, 28 February 2008

In a lighter mood.

A little boy goes to his dad and asks, "What are Politics?" Dad says "Well son, let me try to explain it this way:
..1. Im the head of the family, so call me the president
..2. Your mother is the administrator of the money, so we call her the Government.
..3. We're here to take care of your needs, so we'll call you the People.
..4. The nanny, we'll consider her the Working class.
..5. And your baby brother, we'll call him the future.

"Now think about that and see if it makes sense."

So, the little boy goes off to bed thinking about what Dad has said.Later that night, he hears his baby brother crying, so he gets up to check on him. He finds that the baby has severely soiled his diaper So, the little boy goes to his parents room and finds his mother sound asleep. Not wanting to wake her, he goes to the nanny's room.Finding the door locked, he looks in the peephole and sees his father in bed with the nanny.He gives up and goes back to bed.

The next morning, the little boy says to his father, "Dad i think i understand the concept of politics now:The father says "Good son, tell me in your own words what you think politics is all about"The little boy replies, "The president is screwing the working class, while the government is sound asleep. The people are being ignored and the Future is in deep shit".

Tuesday, 26 February 2008

The Decline in Courtship:

I am beginning to think that time has left me by, otherwise, why does it appear to me as though some people I know are no longer interested in long, eventful and explorative courtship. I could remember in those days, how the older ones take pride in their relationships and dates.

Somehow, I miss the movie dates, I miss the long walks, I miss the conversations, and I definitely miss getting to know my prospective girl friend. I tell you what else I miss: I miss writing love-notes. It was fun and instructive penning some of those love letters -- expressing ones intentions and ones everlasting love and devotion.

It was just plain fun having a girl friend to introduce to friends and neighbors. The swagger of having a girl friend is almost gone. The knowing, the journey, the adventure, and the thrill of getting to know a girl is almost gone. Because this days having a girlfriend is almost the same as having a sex partner.

It is so bland and uneventful these days. The speed can be blinding. From the first date to consummation can be as little as 24-hours. And in fact the entire relationship may be over in another 72-hours or 27 weeks. How sad.

Whatever happened to courtship? What is the way out.Readers opinions are welcomed.

Friday, 22 February 2008

It's Friday again.

It's another Friday,there will be 2 days break. Whoa! isn't that great, but before you go, take a break and ponder on how you want it to be.

Will you spend it in a way that you wish Sunday will not come quickly or in a way you will be happy to come back to work on Monday. What ever you do just remember God.

Have a nice weekend.Cheer

Thursday, 21 February 2008

Please "SAY IT OUT"

Hello readers,how is the day going and i hope you are all reaching out to your loved ones,because if you don't, you may regret it one day...

I was chatting with a friend a while ago and she told me how much she regretted never telling her brother,how much she loved him,shortly before he died.The Brother had gone to her school to inform her, he will soon be a graduate. He never got back to his destination, he died in a car accident. That also reminds me of a story i read somewhere, sit back and enjoy:

One day a teacher asked her students to list the names of the other students in the room on two sheets of paper, leaving a space between each name.Then she told them to think of the nicest thing they could say about each of their classmates and write it down.It took the remainder of the class period to finish their assignment, and as the students left the room, each one handed in the papers.That Saturday, the teacher wrote down the name of each student on a separate sheet of paper, and listed what everyone else had said about that individual.

On Monday she gave each student his or her list. Before long, the entire class was smiling. "Really?" she heard whispered. "I never knew that I meant anything to anyone!" and, "I didn't know others liked me so much," were most of the comments.No one ever mentioned those papers in class again. She never knew if they discussed them after class or with their parents, but it didn't matter. The exercise had accomplished its purpose. The students were happy with themselves and one another. That group of students moved on.

Several years later, one of the students was killed in Viet Nam and his teacher attended the funeral of that special student. She had never seen a serviceman in a military coffin before. He looked so handsome, so mature.The church was packed with his friends. One by one those who loved him took a last walk by the coffin. The teacher was the last one to bless the coffin.As she stood there, one of the soldiers who acted as pallbearer came up to her.

"Were you Mark's math teacher?" he asked. She nodded: "yes." Then he said: "Mark talked about you a lot."After the funeral, most of Mark's former classmates went together to a luncheon. Mark's mother and father were there, obviously waiting to speak with his teacher."We want to show you something," his father said, taking a wallet out of his pocket "They found this on Mark when he was killed. We thought you might recognize it."Opening the billfold, he carefully removed two worn pieces of notebook paper that had obviously been taped, folded and refolded many times.

The teacher knew without looking that the papers were the ones on which she had listed all the good things each of Mark's classmates had said about him."Thank you so much for doing that," Mark's mother said. "As you can see, Mark treasured it." All of Mark's former classmates started to gather around.

Charlie smiled rather sheepishly and said, "I still have my list. It's in the top drawer of my desk at home."

Chuck's wife said, "Chuck asked me to put his in our wedding album."

"I have mine too," Marilyn said. "It's in my diary"

Then Vicki, another classmate, reached into her pocketbook, took out her wallet and showed her worn and frazzled list to the group. "I carry this with me at all times," Vicki said and without batting an eyelash, she continued: "I think we all saved our lists"

That's when the teacher finally sat down and cried. She cried for Mark and for all his friends who would never see him again.The density of people in society is so thick that we forget that life will end one day. And we don't know when that one day will be.

So please, tell the people you love and care for, that they are special and important. Tell them, before it is too late.Never again miss a wonderful opportunity to do something nice and beautiful.Remember, you reap what you sow. What you put into the lives of others comes back into your own.

May Your Day Be Blessed As Special As You Are

Wednesday, 20 February 2008

Sleeping on duty.

The issue of sleeping is a very serious thing, recently i dozed off while returning from a very busy trip and i started wondering what actually make people sleep without caution.I have a friend back in the university days who can sleep on water,what my friend need to sleep is just a moment of inactivity, i just wondered is that sleep cannot be controlled or people just sleep for the fun of it.I want to hear readers opinion concerning "Sleeping on Duty".

Tuesday, 12 February 2008

Closer

Today, average lifespan according to a recent statistics is about 75 years.

This means that; If you are presently 20, according to the lifespan statistics you only have 660 months left. If you are 30 years old; 540 months left. If you're 40 years; 420 months remaining.

If you're presently 50 years; 300 months and if you are 60 and above, you have less than 180 months.

Now, my objective is neither to depress nor to frighten you. Rather, I only want you to understand that we do not have an unlimited number of years to live. It's a pity that most of us live our lives as if we have 5,000 years to live.

Fast forward yourself in time, visualize yourself when you'd be old, grey and on your death bed. What are those things that you are going to regret? What are those chances you'd wish you had taken? And what are the things you'd wish you had achieved?

The woman you'd wish you had asked out? The job you'd wish you had changed? The education you'd wish you had furthered.Whatever?

The only person holding you back is you. Take chances and even if you make mistakes, it's still ok. The most important thing is that you learn from them and then do better next time.

Dear all, Live your life to the fullest!


Cheers

Monday, 11 February 2008

This sweet stuff,is a killer

Few minutes ago i was taking a bottle of fanta and it suddenly struck me that what am doing may not be healthy.So i went to Google search engine to find out, what is the effect of sugar on my body,i made a very startling discovery.Read on:

1. Sugar can suppress the immune system.

2. Sugar upsets the mineral relationships in the body.

3. Sugar can cause hyperactivity, anxiety, difficulty concentrating, and crankiness in children.

4. Sugar contributes to the reduction in defense against bacterial infection (infectious diseases).

5. Sugar causes a loss of tissue elasticity and function, the more sugar you eat the more elasticity and function you loose.

6. Sugar leads to cancer of the ovaries.

7. Sugar can weaken eyesight.

8. Sugar can cause a rapid rise of adrenaline levels in children.

9. Sugar can cause premature aging.

10. Sugar can lead to alcoholism.

11. Sugar can cause tooth decay.

12. Sugar contributes to obesity

13. Sugar can cause changes frequently found in person with gastric or duodenal ulcers.

14. Sugar can cause arthritis.

15. Sugar can cause asthma.

16. Sugar can cause gallstones.

17. Sugar can cause heart disease.

18. Sugar can cause appendicitis.

19. Sugar can cause multiple sclerosis.

20. Sugar can cause hemorrhoids.

And many more i actually saw about 146 of them, but you won't believe that i tried to find out the advantages.I saw just one sugar is a sweetener,Period. So think and act

Thursday, 7 February 2008

Free or Hiding

This article has been on my mind for some weeks now,i even put the topic down and opened a note pad for it,but i did not write about it for long. I just finished a discussion with my Human Resource Manager now and the urge to write this article swelled up in me.

Recently there was a call in my office for every one to drop one bad habit and pick up a good one and true to it, we started seeing a lot of changes,ranging from use of wrong words to clubbing quitting and all that. I was so surprised at the level of change that,i was moved in my spirit to write this article.Because i asked myself are we really changing or we are hiding.

Whenever people are asked to make a change that will affect their personal life,they have 3 options,it is either they go ahead and break the habit,or they keep on as if they don't care,but the third option is the most common,which is that people will just be more careful concerning that habit wherever you are which is very dangerous.

We should not be ashamed to get help whenever we need to, most of what we keep away from people that love and are willing to help us, tend to destroy us at the end of the day.Remember 'Gehazi' yes that one in the bible,he went behind to collect a gift his master rejected,of course they didn't beg him for it,so why won't they collect it,after all the man's intention is to bless them.Because of that single act he blessed himself and his family with a wonderful leprosy.

My friends instead of hiding that stuff,Pleeeeeeeeease drop it now, it can truncate your journey.

Thursday, 31 January 2008

Dream

When i was a child i dreamt about so many beautiful things, and i was also aware of how great i will become,with constant reassurance from my parents that i will climb heights in live that they have never even dreamt about.

As i was growing in live things started changing from level to level, when i started learning how to drive i could remember my dream car then was Nissan Laurel. Oh God, i can remember vividly how i begged my dad to please get one so i can drive with him,but the old man went for a Peugeot 505 Evolution,so i changed my dream car to Mercedes benz 230 then.

As i proceed in my journey through live my taste for cars started changing and started climbing too,from Honda Allah(1990) to Honda baby boy (2000). I also remember strongly how i prayed to God when my father in the lord bought a Nissan X terra,that God should help me,because i want to drive that kind of car.

But do you know the beautiful thing God did, he was watching and waiting for me to be ready because i was not ready, i thought i was, but i was not matured enough for all those things. Even when i had enough to buy a car of my choice God said no. But when the lord turned again the captivity of Zion we are like them that Dream (Psalm 126:1).

When the time came the lord not only gave me the money to get the car,but he also helped me to get a good deal that i find difficult to understand. The next thing for me now is to move on, for i already desire another one,do u really want to know my next dream car. Hang on with me...But am saying to you today, Dare to Dream cos "Dreams come True",Dream it is vital for your growth and advancement

!OH LORD I THANK YOU FOR TAKING ME TO THE NEXT LEVEL.

Monday, 28 January 2008

Why i write.

When i started writing on my blog,i ventured out with the intent of reaching out to my friends,younger ones,people that know me and accord me respect.As a result of this i have been struggling with writing for long,too long.Recently i discovered that what i can write with them in mind is limiting, because am no longer in touch with most of them, they don't even know that this blog exist,so i made up my mind to let go and unleash my skills.I will write when it is popular and write when it is not.

As a result of this i want my new set of readers to get to know me,that is where am coming from and where am going to. To this effect, starting from my next post,i will beaming some light on where,how and what of my life,i will be telling my story of GRACE because without grace, i would have derailed long time ago.

I will be covering issue ranging form Love,academic,financial and spiritual life.I'm not sure am a very good story teller but i will try my best to make it an interesting piece without and exaggeration nor holding back, i will say it as it happen.Why dont you relax and take the trip with me, you will enjoy it have a wonderful week ahead. Aloha!

Thursday, 24 January 2008

Read and Think


READ EACH SENTENCE SLOWLY AND THINK ABOUT IT.

Untrue love starts with a smile, grows with a kiss, and ends with tears.

Don't cry over anyone who won't cry over you.

Good friends are hard to find, harder to leave, and impossible to forget.

Don't let the past hold you back, you're missing the good stuff.

BEST FRIENDS are the siblings with different parents.

When it hurts to look back, and you're scared to look ahead, you can look beside
you and your BEST FRIEND will be there.

Nobody is perfect until you fall in love with them.

Remember, every minute spent angry is sixty seconds of happiness wasted.

As you go about your work today,be happy your best is yet to come.

Monday, 21 January 2008

Life is Beautiful

Happy nu week,this week i want to open the blog with some thoughts of mine and quotes from various sources,that i always read through when am challenged or bored.Take time to read, ponder and act cheers.
  • When i expect, i feel tension.when i accept, i feel light.
  • Appreciate innocence.Appreciation is like letting the sunshine in.Everything suddenly becomes brighter
  • Seize the day.
  • Aspire greatly.Anything less than a commitment to excellence becomes an acceptance of Mediocrity- Brian tracy
  • How wonderful, that no one need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world.
  • Dream boldly.Nothing BIG was ever achieved, without the first dream.
  • A fear starts when you think it,and stops when you don't.
  • "Live out of your imagination,not your history" - Steven Covey
  • A day without laughter is a day wasted - Charlie chaplin
  • A mind, once stretched, will never again return to it's original dimensions"
  • Probably you are designed to be outstanding for a reason.
  • After any pain,you can choose to appreciate the freedom
  • Be peaceful in yourself, and you'll find peace all around you
  • The best way to raise your quality of life is to raise your standards.
  • You are always rewarded for what you gave not what you received
  • Everyone smiles in the same language - Mother Teresa
  • Remember to really notice the "magic moments" that are all around you
  • Even the turtle goes nowhere until he sticks his neck out.
  • Make time for fun everyday.
  • Awaken to your ultimate potential.
  • We cannot direct the wind,but we can adjust the sails.
  • Aerodynamically bumble bee can't fly! Fortunately,it can't read either!
  • Isn't it great to know we are all different...and we can appreciate that uniqueness in others.
  • With every challenge you may face, whisper to yourself "it's time to grow"
  • Sometimes it gets very dark but given time the sun always rises again.

Thursday, 17 January 2008

Hmn! 3 W

Good day, how is it going...If you are happy about future thank God, peradventure you are feeling other wise don't worry i believe 2008 have a lot in stock for us all, whether you are positive or you are not sure,just position yourself for the coming blessing because it will stretch your net to a breaking point, hope you are ready for it.As for me i have been taking time to re organise my life,my system and many other areas so that i can attain my desire level in life and also get to a place of honour and Glory. To go far in life there are 3 things you need to be very careful about and they are WINE,WEALTH and WOMEN.This dreaded 3 things of life which the bible also recognise in the book of 1st John 2:16 as lust of the eyes(WOMEN),lust of the flesh(WINE) and pride of life(WEALTH).They are good things of life but if abused they can kill.Please dont get me wrong they are very good, but when they are in control, you can loose it all,if care is not taken.

1. Lust of the eyes(Women)
Just take a walk around town today with your eyes opened though, you will see a lot of half
naked women walking the street,but then i ask myself why are they doing it and the only
answer i can get from myself is fashion. I cannot hide the fact those things causes me to struggle atimes, but whenever i think of it, i ask myself how far do i want to go in life and how far can i go,then alarm will blow just like my Laptop avast anti virus system. CAUTION! Women are very essential in life without them we are not complete but when u are involved with so many you will definately regret it,someone said something in lighter mood that actually inpired this article.He said and i quote: 1. It's important to have a woman, who helps at home, who cooks from time to time, cleans up and has a job.
2. It's important to have a woman, who can make you laugh.
3. It's important to have a woman, whom you can trust and who doesn't lie to you.
4. It's important to have a woman, who is good in bed and who likes to be with you.
5. It's very, very important that these four women do not know each other
So please be careful.

2. Lust of the flesh(WINE)
Paul recommended to Timothy to drink wine for his stomach's sake and for his continuous ailments. The Bible often makes references to the value of wine for health and
enjoyment.However there is a caution in the book of proverbs that wine is a mocker and beer
is a brawler he that is led astral by them is not wise.I would never recommend that anyone begin drinking, because alcohol has many destructive health effects. Physicians simply cannot predict with any certainty who will become a problem drinker."However it is not only wine we are talking about here today,anything you do in life that make you loose the sense of who you are is not worth it,because you will overcome the tipsy and the crazy effect of it,but then When
the dust clear you will regret your careless action.Some people are actually masters in it,but
be careful too much of it may lead to your down fall. Because too much of everything is bad.


3. Pride of life(WEALTH)
Many times we equate wealth with money. I want to say at this point that,you can have money
and not be wealthy but it is not likely that you will be wealthy with absence of money.You can
have wealth of experience and a lots of other things.The caution here is when you get to a level
where you have something that makes men respect and honor you,then we all tend to become careless, we pay less or no attention to things of God and even neglect his several warnings,we tend to make material things our God.But my friend before you take that plunge apply your brakes pride goes before a fall.

To get to the peak is not the issue but to remain there is the greatest work.See you on top.

Happy New Year

HAPPY NEW YEAR

Welcome to my year of "Overflowing blessing".What a time in the year to do this after 17 days into the new year,but it is better late than never.This year i believe will be a lot better than 2007 which was a year of perfection.Now i need you to believe with me that whatsoever the lord has perfected in 2007 will result in overflowing blessing in 2008.Did i hear u say Amen.Then let us walk into the fullness and then overflowing of his blessing hand in hand.

Well it is a little over 2 months now since my last post,this year promises to be better,fasten your sit belt because we have a lot ahead of us.This year there will be a lot of reorganization ,discussions, topics will be raised and many more.Please make sure you are part of everything happening.Have a wonderful and exciting year ahead

Cheers

Saturday, 10 November 2007

Stock Market.

Once upon a time in a village, a man appeared and announced to the villagers that he would buy monkeys for N10.The villagers seeing that there were many monkeys around, went out to the forest and started catching them.The man bought thousands at N10 and as supply started to diminish, the villagers stopped their effort. He further announced that he would now buy at N20. This renewed the efforts of the villagers and they started catching monkeys again.Soon the supply diminished even further and people started going back to their farms. The offer rate increased to N25 and the supply of monkeys became so little that it was an effort to even see a monkey, let alone catch it!

The man now announced that he would buy monkeys at N50! However, since he had to go to the city on some business, his assistant would now buy on behalf of him.In the absence of the man, the assistant told the villagers. Look at all these monkeys in the big cage that the man has collected. I will sell them to you at N35 and when the man returns from the city, you can sell it to him for N50."The villagers squeezed up with all their savings and bought all the monkeys.Then they never saw the man nor his assistant, only monkeys everywhere!!!

Welcome to the "Stock" Market!!!!!

Thursday, 8 November 2007

Perfect world.


A father was reading a newspaper. He didn't want to be disturbed by his little girl,so he cut out a map of the world, tore it to pieces and gave it to her to assemble.After a while, she returned to him with the map all in perfect order, every piece in its place. The surprised father said, "Honey, you don't know anything about geography,so how did you do it?" The innocent girl replied, "The picture of Jesus is at the back of this map and I knew if I have Jesus in the right place, the whole world would be perfect." Have a blessed day

Wednesday, 7 November 2007

Last Faith.

Amazingly i have been staying in my present apartment in Lagos for about 3 months now,and i know very little or almost nothing about my neighbors.I know we are all young and upcoming,there are some i really want to get close to and some i hate to avoid,not because they are bad but because they are either too good or too quiet to a fault.One of those i love to see is Pastor D(not real name).He dropped me off on my way to the office yesterday and we rubbed minds on a number of things and i was lead to do something when i got back home.He then told me something,that sort of inspired me to write this post.He said "you don't understand what you have done for me,do you know what it is to exercise your last faith this is a confirmation that God is real". There are times we just pray and feel like nothing has happened,be sure a lot has happened on your behalf,read the story of the girl below as an example.

A girl went to her friends house and she ended up staying longer than planned, and had to walk home alone. She wasn't afraid because it was a small COMMUNITY and she lived only a few blocks away.As she walked along under the bike trail Diane asked God to keep her safe from harm and danger.When she reached the alley, which was a shortcut to her house,she decided to take it. However, halfway down the alley she noticed a man standing at the end as though he were waiting for her.She became uneasy and began to pray, asking for God's protection.
Instantly a comforting feeling of quietness and security wrapped round her,she felt as though someone was walking with her.When she reached the end of the alley, she walked right past the man and arrived home safely.

The following day, she read in the newspaper that a young girl had been raped in the same alley just twenty minutes after she had been there.Feeling overwhelmed by this tragedy and the fact that it could have been her, she began to weep.Thanking the Lord for her safety and to help this young woman,she decided to go to the police station.She felt she could recognize the man, so she told them her story.The police asked her if she would be willing to look at a lineup to see if she could identify him.She agreed and immediately pointed out the man she had seen in the alley the night before.When the man was told he had been identified, he immediately broke down and confessed.The officer thanked Diane for her bravery and asked if there was anything they could do for her.

She asked if they would ask the man one question.Diane was curious as to why he had not attacked her.When the policeman asked him, he answered, 'Because she wasn't alone. She had two tall men walking on either side of her.'
Amazingly, whether you believe or not, you're not alone.
PS: God is always there in your heart and loves you no matter what.'If you deny me in front of your friends, I shall deny you in front of my Father'.Relax and have a wonderful time with him.

STAND UP FOR HIM