Tuesday, 27 May 2008
Does Love need a Reason...??
Some people never understand.Times without number i have been faced with this question whether in my relationship or during counselling sessions.Why do you really love me.Most times when i search my heart after facing such question,i cannot always come up with an answer even my wife to be want to know,and i always tell her that the fact that i cannot explain it confirm the hand of God in what am doing.
The depth of the riches both of the wisdom and knowledge of God! how unsearchable are his judgments,and his ways past finding out!Rom 11:33
Once a lady when having a conversation with her lover, asked:
Lady :Why do you like me..? Why do you love me?
Man : I can t tell the reason.. but I really like you..
Lady :You can t even tell me the reason... how can you say you like me? How can you say you love me?
Man : I really don t know the reason, but I can prove that I love U.
Lady :Proof? No! I want you to tell me the reason. My friend s boyfriend can tell her why he loves her but not you!
Man :Ok..ok!!! Erm... because you are beautiful,because your voice is sweet,because you are caring,loving,thoughtful,because of your smile and because of your every movements.
The lady felt very satisfied with the man's answer.Unfortunately,a few days later,the Lady met with an accident and went in comma.The Guy then placed a letter by her side,here is the content:Darling,Because of your sweet voice that I love you...Now can you talk? No! Therefore I cannot love you.Because of your care and concern that I like you..Now that you cannot show them,therefore I cannot love you.Because of your smile,because of your every movements that I love you..Now can you smile? Now can you move?No,therefore I cannot love you...
If love needs a reason, like now,There is no reason for me to love you anymore.
Does love need a reason? NO!
Therefore,I still LOVE YOU...
"True love never dies for it is lust that fades away. Love bonds for a lifetime but lust just pushes away"
Immature love says: 'I love you because I need you.'Mature love says 'I need you because I love you.''Fate Determines Who Comes Into Our Lives, But Heart Determines Who Stays...'