Wednesday, 28 May 2008

Do you have his time?

As you got up this morning,I watched you,and hoped you would talk to me,even if it was just a few words,asking my opinion or thanking me for something good that happened in your life yesterday.But I noticed you were too busy,trying to find the right outfit to wear.

When you ran around the house getting ready,I knew there would be a few minutes for you to stop and say hello,but you were to busy.At one point you had to wait fifteen minutes with nothing to do except sit in a chair.Then I saw you spring to your feet.I thought you wanted to talk to me but you ran to the phone and called a friend to get the latest gossip instead.I
watched patiently all day long.With all your activities I guess you were too busy to say anything
to me.

I noticed that before lunch you looked around, maybe you felt embarrassed to talk to me,that is why you didn't bow your head.You glanced three or four tables over and you noticed some of your friends talking to me briefly before they ate,but you didn't.That's okay.There is still more time left,and I hope that you will talk to me yet.

You went home and it seems as if you had lots of things to do.After a few of them were done,you
turned on the TV.I don't know if you like TV or not, just about anything goes there and you spend a lot of time each day in front of it not thinking about anything,just enjoying the show.I waited patiently again as you watched the TV and ate your meal,but again you didn't talk to me.

Bedtime I guess you felt too tired.After you said goodnight to your family you plopped into bed and fell asleep in no time.That's okay because you may not realise that I am always there for you...I've got patience, more than you will ever know....I even want to teach you how to be patient with others as well.

I love you so much that I wait everyday for a nod, prayer or thought,or a thankful part of your heart. It is hard to have a one-sided conversation. Well,you are getting up once again.Once again I will wait,with nothing but love for you.Hoping that today you will give me some time.Have a nice day!

Your Father,


I do Love God. He is my source of existence and Saviour. He keeps me functioning each and everyday. Without Him, I will be nothing. Without him, I am nothing; but with Him I can do all things through Christ that strengthens me. (Phil 4:13)

Tuesday, 27 May 2008

Does Love need a Reason...??

Some people never understand.Times without number i have been faced with this question whether in my relationship or during counselling sessions.Why do you really love me.Most times when i search my heart after facing such question,i cannot always come up with an answer even my wife to be want to know,and i always tell her that the fact that i cannot explain it confirm the hand of God in what am doing.

The depth of the riches both of the wisdom and knowledge of God! how unsearchable are his judgments,and his ways past finding out!Rom 11:33

Once a lady when having a conversation with her lover, asked:
Lady :Why do you like me..? Why do you love me?
Man : I can t tell the reason.. but I really like you..
Lady :You can t even tell me the reason... how can you say you like me? How can you say you love me?
Man : I really don t know the reason, but I can prove that I love U.
Lady :Proof? No! I want you to tell me the reason. My friend s boyfriend can tell her why he loves her but not you!
Man :Ok..ok!!! Erm... because you are beautiful,because your voice is sweet,because you are caring,loving,thoughtful,because of your smile and because of your every movements.

The lady felt very satisfied with the man's answer.Unfortunately,a few days later,the Lady met with an accident and went in comma.The Guy then placed a letter by her side,here is the content:Darling,Because of your sweet voice that I love you...Now can you talk? No! Therefore I cannot love you.Because of your care and concern that I like you..Now that you cannot show them,therefore I cannot love you.Because of your smile,because of your every movements that I love you..Now can you smile? Now can you move?No,therefore I cannot love you...

If love needs a reason, like now,There is no reason for me to love you anymore.

Does love need a reason? NO!

Therefore,I still LOVE YOU...

"True love never dies for it is lust that fades away. Love bonds for a lifetime but lust just pushes away"

Immature love says: 'I love you because I need you.'Mature love says 'I need you because I love you.''Fate Determines Who Comes Into Our Lives, But Heart Determines Who Stays...'

Tuesday, 20 May 2008

Mothers Day.

Why are you crying, a young boy asked his Mom?
"Because I'm a woman," she told him."I don't understand," he said.His Mom just hugged him and said,"And you never will, but that's O.K.".......

Later the little boy asked his father,
"Why does Mom seem to cry for no reason?"."All women cry for no reason," was all his Dad could say......The little boy grew up and became a man,still wondering why women cry.

Finally he put in a call to God and when God got back to him, he asked "God, why do women cry so easily?"

GOD answered.... ..
"When I made woman,
I decided she had to be special.
I made her shoulders
strong enough to carry
the weight of the world, yet,
made her arms gentle enough to give comfort...
I gave her the inner strength
to endure childbirth
and the rejection
that many times will come
even from her own children.
I gave her a hardness
that allows her
to keep going and take care
of her family and friends,
even when everyone else gives up, through sickness and fatigue without
complaining. ...
I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all
circumstances. Even when her child has hurt her badly....
She has the very special power to make a child's boo-boo feel better and
to quell a teenager's anxieties and fears....
I gave her strength to care for her husband, despite faults
and I fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart....
I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife, but
sometimes tests her strengths and her resolve to stand beside him
unfalteringly. ...
For all of this hard work,
I also gave her a tear to shed.
It is hers to use
whenever needed and !
it is her only weakness....
When you see her cry,
tell her how much you love her, and all she does for everyone, and even though
she may still cry, you will have made her heart feel good.

She is special!

Please get all the mothers you know to read this,special women in your life.But, tell men also so they will understand how wonderful women are.

Love Your Mother Always And Keep Her Smiling

Monday, 19 May 2008

Fairy tale for Managers (Management 03)

A farmer had the misfortune Of owing a large sum of money to a village moneylender.The Moneylender,who was old and ugly, fancied the farmer's beautiful Daughter.So he proposed a bargain.He said he would forgo the farmer's debt if he could marry his Daughter. Both the farmer and his daughter were horrified by the Proposal.So the cunning money-lender suggested that they let Providence decide the matter.He told them that he would put a black Pebble and a white pebble into an empty money bag. Then the girl would Have to pick one pebble from the bag.

1) If she picked the black pebble, she would become his wife and her father's debt would be forgiven.

2) If she picked the white pebble she need not marry him and her father's debt would still be forgiven.

3) But if she refused to pick a pebble, her father would be thrown into Jail.

They were standing on a pebble strewn path in the farmer's field.As They talked, the moneylender bent over to pick up two pebbles.As he Picked them up,the sharp-eyed girl noticed that he had picked up two Black pebbles and put them into the bag.He then asked the girl to pick A pebble from the bag.Now,imagine that you were standing in the field. What would you have Done if you were the girl? If you had to advise her,what would you Have told her?

Careful analysis would produce three possibilities:

1. The girl should refuse to take a pebble.

2. The girl should show that there were two black pebbles in the bag And expose the money-lender as a cheat.

3. The girl should pick a black pebble and sacrifice herself in order To save her father from his debt and imprisonment.

Take a moment to ponder over the story.The above story is used with The hope that it will make us appreciate the difference between lateral And logical thinking.The girl's dilemma cannot be solved with Traditional logical thinking. Think of the consequences if she chooses

The above logical answers...
What would you recommend to the Girl to do? Well, here is what she did ....

The girl put her hand into the moneybag and drew out a pebble.Without Looking at it,she fumbled and let it fall onto the pebble-strewn path Where it immediately became lost among all the other pebbles.

"Oh, how clumsy of me," she said."But never mind,if you look into the Bag for the one that is left,you will be able to tell which pebble I Picked."Since the remaining pebble is black,it must be assumed that she had Picked the white one.And since the money-lender dared not admit his Dishonesty,the girl changed what seemed an impossible situation into An extremely advantageous one.

Most complex problems do have a solution. It is only that we don't Attempt to think.

Friday, 16 May 2008

Lessons in Logic

Practice makes perfect.....
But nobody's perfect..... .

so why practice?

If it's true that we are here to help others,
then what exactly are the others here for?


Since light travels faster than sound,
people appear bright until you hear them speak.

How come "abbreviated" is such a long word?

Money is not everything.
There's Mastercard & Visa.

Behind every successful man, there is a woman
And behind every unsuccessful man, there are two.


Never put off the work till tomorrow
what you can put off today.

"Your future depends on your dreams"
So go to sleep


"Work fascinates me"
I can look at it for hours


God made relatives;
Thank God we can choose our friends.

The more you learn, the more you know,
The more you know, the more you forget

The more you forget, the less you know
So.. why learn.

A bus station is where a bus stops.
A train station is where a train stops.

On my desk, I have a work station....
what more can I say...

Thursday, 8 May 2008

Mind Job(See how far you can go).

1. A murderer is condemned to death.He has to choose between three rooms.The first is full of raging fires, the second is full of assassins with loaded guns, and the third is full of lions that haven't eaten in 3 years.Which room is safest for him?

2. A woman shoots her husband.Then she holds him under water for Over 5 minutes. Finally,she hangs him.But 5 minutes later they both go out together and enjoy a wonderful dinner together.How can this be?

3. What is black when you buy it,red when you use it,and gray when you throw it away?

4. Can you name three consecutive days without using the words Monday,Tuesday,Wednesday,Thursday,Friday,Saturday,or Sunday?

5. This is an unusual paragraph.I'm curious how quickly you can find out what is so unusual about it.It looks so plain you would think nothing was wrong with it. In fact,nothing is wrong with it! It is unusual though.Study it,and think about it,but you still may not find anything odd.But if you work at it a bit,you might find out.

Try to do so without any coaching!




1. The third. Lions that haven't eaten in three years are dead.

2. The woman was a photographer.She shot a picture of her husband,developed it and hung it up to dry.

3. Charcoal

4. Sure you can:Yesterday,Today,and Tomorrow!

5. The letter "e," which is the most common letter in the English language,does not appear once in the long paragraph