Out of your busy schedule

A man came home from work late, tired and irritated, to find his 5-year old son waiting for him at the door.

SON: "Daddy, may I ask you a question?"
DAD: "Yeah sure, what is it?" replied the man.
SON: "Daddy, how much do you make an hour?"
DAD: "That's none of your business. Why do you ask such a thing?"the man said angrily.
SON: "I just want to know. Please tell me, how much do you make an hour?"
DAD: "If you must know, I make Rs.100 an hour."
SON: "Oh," the little boy replied, with his head down.
SON: "Daddy, may I please borrow Rs.50?"

The father was furious, "If the only reason you asked that is so you can borrow some money to buy a silly toy or some other nonsense, then you march yourself straight to your room and go to bed. Think about why you are being so selfish. I work hard everyday for such this childish behavior."

The little boy quietly went to his room and shut the door.The man sat down and started to get even angrier about the little boy's questions.How dare he ask such questions only to get some money?After about an hour or so, the man had calmed down, and started to think: Maybe there was something he really needed to buy with that Rs.50 and he really didn't ask for money very often. The man went to the door of the little boy's room and opened the door."Are you asleep, son?" He asked."No daddy, I'm awake," replied the boy."I've been thinking, maybe I was too hard on you earlier" said the man."It's been a long day and I took out my aggravation on you.. Here's the Rs.50 you asked for."

The little boy sat straight up, smiling. "Oh, thank you daddy!" He yelled.Then, reaching under his pillow he pulled out some crumpled up bills.The man saw that the boy already had money, started to get angry again. The little boy slowly counted out his money, and then looked up at his father."Why do you want more money if you already have some?" the father grumbled."Because I didn't have enough, but now I do," the little boy replied."Daddy, I have Rs.100 now. Can I buy an hour of your time?Please come home early tomorrow. I would like to have dinner with you."The father was crushed. He put his arms around his little son, and he begged for his forgiveness.

It's just a short reminder to all of you working so hard in life. We should not let time slip through our fingers without having spent some time with those who really matter to us, those close to our hearts.Do remember to share that Rs.100 worth of your time with someone you love.If we die tomorrow, the company that we are working for could easily replace us in a matter of days.

But the family & friends we leave behind will feel the loss for the rest of their lives. And come to think of it, we pour ourselves more into work than to our family.

When you love someone.

Sometimes, you could love someone but you don't get it reciprocated.The person in question might show some signs of love too but just isn't ready to commit.For what reason,you might ask.Well,for some valid reasons,sometimes invalid reasons.But whatever the case,the person has some reason or the other.How do you feel in such a case? Well,different feelings could rave through you:

• You could feel disappointed
• You could feel like crying (sometimes you actually do)
• You could feel like hating the person (remember you professed to love that same person)
• You could feel like breaking off every form of communication with the person
• You could feel like doing something to hurt the person
• You could feel like hating everybody in general
• You could feel like receding into a shell or world of your own and not reach out again

You could feel a whole lot of emotions,some on the negative, some baseless.But what are you supposed to do in such situations?Well, one thing you should realize is that the choice of any commitment is always dependent on the other person; not just on you.You shouldn't react negatively towards the person.Even if your love isn't reciprocated,that doesn't mean you can't still love them.It is possible for the relationship to be broken because of the situation but since you've professed to love the person,you just have to.The difference here is that you know your love isn't being reciprocated.At least,you should have known from the beginning that there was a risk of rejection.

You could say that this is difficult especially if the person whom you are in love with is probably in a relationship with someone else.But what can you do? Nothing.You just have to let go.If the person realizes that he/she might actually be in love with you and wants to commit, it is up to the person.You can't force someone to love you.At no point in time should you try to do anything that you might consider an act of vengeance or payback because you will end up not only hurting the person, but yourself too.Live your life freely, give as much love as possible and try to get over whatever hurt you might feel. Make friends and live life generally so as to get a balance. Definitely, your matching love would surely come up one day.Or , who knows if the person you love might come to his/her senses and realize that you are the one whom he/she loves and would be willing to commit to.

This is something to think about.

5 Minutes Management Training

Lesson 1:
A man is getting into the shower just as his wife is finishing up her shower,when the doorbell rings.The wife quickly wraps herself in a towel and runs downstairs. Then she opens the door,there stands Bob,the next-door neighbour.Before she says a word, Bob says,'I'll give you $800 to drop that towel.'After thinking for a moment,the woman drops her towel and stands naked in front of Bob,after a few seconds,Bob hands her $800 and leaves.The woman wraps back up in the towel and goes back upstairs.When she gets to the bathroom, her husband asks,'Who was that?''It was Bob the next door neighbour,' she replies.'Great,'the husband says,'did he say anything about the $800 he owes me?'
Moral of the story:
If you share critical information pertaining to credit and risk with your shareholders in time,you may be in a position to prevent avoidable exposure.

Lesson 2:
A priest offered a Nun a lift.She got in and crossed her legs,forcing her gown to reveal a leg.The priest nearly had an accident.After controlling the car,he stealthily slid his hand up her leg.The nun said, 'Father,remember Psalm 129?'
The priest removed his hand.But,changing gears,he let his hand slide up her leg again.The nun once again said,'Father,remember Psalm 129?'The priest apologized 'Sorry sister but the flesh is weak.'Arriving at the convent,the nun sighed heavily and went on her way.On his arrival at the church,the priest rushed to look up Psalm 129.It said,'Go forth and seek,further up,you will find glory.'
Moral of the story:
If you are not well informed in your job,you might miss a great opportunity.

Lesson 3:
A sales rep,an administration clerk,and the manager are walking to lunch when they find an antique oil lamp.They rub it and a Genie comes out.The Genie says,'I'll give each of you just one wish.''Me first! Me first!' says the admin clerk. 'I want to be in the Bahamas,driving a speedboat,without a care in the world.' Puff! She's gone.'Me next! Me next!' says the sales rep.'I want to be in Hawaii,relaxing on the beach with my personal masseuse,an endless supply of Pina Coladas and the love of my life.'Puff! He's gone.'OK, you're up,'the Genie says to the manager.The manager says,'I want those two back in the office after lunch.'
Moral of the story:
Always let your boss have the first say.

Lesson 4
An eagle was sitting on a tree resting,doing nothing.A small rabbit saw the eagle and asked him,'Can I also sit like you and do nothing?'The eagle answered:'Sure,why not.'So,the rabbit sat on the ground below the eagle and rested.All of a sudden,a fox appeared,jumped on the rabbit and ate it.
Moral of the story:
To be sitting and doing nothing,you must be sitting very,very high up.

Lesson 5
A turkey was chatting with a bull.'I would love to be able to get to the top of that tree' sighed the turkey,'but I haven't got the energy.''Well,why don't you nibble on some of my droppings?'replied the bull.They're packed with nutrients.'The turkey pecked at a lump of dung,and found it actually gave him enough strength to reach the lowest branch of the tree.The next day,after eating some more dung,he reached the second branch.Finally after a fourth night,the turkey was proudly perched at the top of the tree.He was promptly spotted by a farmer,who shot him out of the tree.
Moral of the story:
Bull Sh*t might get you to the top,but it won't keep you there..

Lesson 6
A little bird was flying south for the winter.It was so cold the bird froze and fell to the ground into a large field.While he was lying there,a cow came by and dropped some dung on him.As the frozen bird lay there in the pile of cow dung,he began to realize how warm he was.The dung was actually thawing him out!He lay there all warm and happy,and soon began to sing for joy.A passing cat heard the bird singing and came to investigate.Following the sound,the cat discovered the bird under the pile of cow dung,and promptly dug him out and ate him.
Morals of the story:
(1) Not everyone who sh*ts on you is your enemy.
(2) Not everyone who gets you out of sh*t is your friend.
(3) And when you're in deep sh*t,it's best to keep your mouth shut!
(4) Not everyone love to see you happy.

THUS ENDS THE FIVE MINUTE MANAGEMENT COURSE

Celebrating Crooks and the Crooked:

Most Nigerians don’t celebrate their heroes. They don’t celebrate their intellectuals. They don’t celebrate their best and brightest. They don’t celebrate the honest and the hardworking. They don’t celebrate the Achebes, the Soyinkas, and the Utomis and very many others. They don’t celebrate the first-rate. Unlike a time that once was the vast majority of Nigerians no longer pay attention and deference to the learned and the philosophers amongst us.

Today, it is the Aba traders, the Mushin money-doublers, the yahoo yahoo, the Lagos dream merchants, and the political prostitutes in Abuja and all spots in between that have become our national heroes. We doff our hats to these groups of people; we prostrate before them; we kiss the ground they walk on. We hail them and encourage our children and the younger generation to look up to them.

It is as if Nigeria is bereft of honest people. Day after day, all we hear about are corrupt and thieving governors and minister and other high ranking public officials. It is as if you don’t have to be smart to be somebody. Illiteracy pays. Duplicity and mediocrity bears benefits. Lying and cheating and raping and exploitative behaviors are now perfectly acceptable. It is almost as if you don’t have to be anybody to be somebody. Striving for the best and for excellence is almost a crime.

I am thankful for the life that I knew in the Nigeria of my growing up. I thank all the men and women who had profound influence on my life, i.e. Rev George Adegboye, Chief Bola Ige, Pastor Sola Kolade, Kayode Alaka,Pastor Sam Adeyemi, Kunle Awofolajin and Deolu Akinyemi. But of course, there were others. I remember them all.

The youth of my generation let us stand up and create the Nigeria of our dream.

Why keep secret?

Secret is what you do that at least someone knows about,but you don't want some other people to know about it. Today i ask myself why do people keep secrets. There are very few things i have done in life that i really wish some do not know about,may be i can remember one or two, but eventual those i am keeping it from helped me out of it.

As a student leader back in school, i have a lot of people coming to me, to tell me stuffs about their personal life and i take pride in being able to keep their secrets.I also know some people that if you tell them anything,they will talk about it the very next day on the roof top.That reminds me of a joke about 3 pastors gisting one day.They were telling each others about their weaknesses.The first one said his weakness was that he couldn't keep his eyes and hands off the sisters in his church.The second pastor's weakness is the church money. He is always helping himself to some anytime he is in need.After saying all that, the third pastor made them realise that his own weakness is just that his mouth is like the bowel of a sick person he must vomit whatever he eats,he cannot keep a secret anything he heard he must say it.

Is keeping peoples secrets a strength or weakness? because i know that there some secret you will keep that will put you in trouble.But i do know that despite all, whatever you do and you don't want somebody to know about,don't venture into it at all, because one day the secret will be revealed and where will you be then.So please don't keep secret because once someone knows about it,it is no longer secret.How do you know that your so called secret is not what someone is sharing as a testimony.So Whatever you do it is better to fear God than to fear men.He is the all knowing where there is no man God is there.Cheers

Have a wonderful weekend.

In a lighter mood.

A little boy goes to his dad and asks, "What are Politics?" Dad says "Well son, let me try to explain it this way:
..1. Im the head of the family, so call me the president
..2. Your mother is the administrator of the money, so we call her the Government.
..3. We're here to take care of your needs, so we'll call you the People.
..4. The nanny, we'll consider her the Working class.
..5. And your baby brother, we'll call him the future.

"Now think about that and see if it makes sense."

So, the little boy goes off to bed thinking about what Dad has said.Later that night, he hears his baby brother crying, so he gets up to check on him. He finds that the baby has severely soiled his diaper So, the little boy goes to his parents room and finds his mother sound asleep. Not wanting to wake her, he goes to the nanny's room.Finding the door locked, he looks in the peephole and sees his father in bed with the nanny.He gives up and goes back to bed.

The next morning, the little boy says to his father, "Dad i think i understand the concept of politics now:The father says "Good son, tell me in your own words what you think politics is all about"The little boy replies, "The president is screwing the working class, while the government is sound asleep. The people are being ignored and the Future is in deep shit".

The Decline in Courtship:

I am beginning to think that time has left me by, otherwise, why does it appear to me as though some people I know are no longer interested in long, eventful and explorative courtship. I could remember in those days, how the older ones take pride in their relationships and dates.

Somehow, I miss the movie dates, I miss the long walks, I miss the conversations, and I definitely miss getting to know my prospective girl friend. I tell you what else I miss: I miss writing love-notes. It was fun and instructive penning some of those love letters -- expressing ones intentions and ones everlasting love and devotion.

It was just plain fun having a girl friend to introduce to friends and neighbors. The swagger of having a girl friend is almost gone. The knowing, the journey, the adventure, and the thrill of getting to know a girl is almost gone. Because this days having a girlfriend is almost the same as having a sex partner.

It is so bland and uneventful these days. The speed can be blinding. From the first date to consummation can be as little as 24-hours. And in fact the entire relationship may be over in another 72-hours or 27 weeks. How sad.

Whatever happened to courtship? What is the way out.Readers opinions are welcomed.

It's Friday again.

It's another Friday,there will be 2 days break. Whoa! isn't that great, but before you go, take a break and ponder on how you want it to be.

Will you spend it in a way that you wish Sunday will not come quickly or in a way you will be happy to come back to work on Monday. What ever you do just remember God.

Have a nice weekend.Cheer

Please "SAY IT OUT"

Hello readers,how is the day going and i hope you are all reaching out to your loved ones,because if you don't, you may regret it one day...

I was chatting with a friend a while ago and she told me how much she regretted never telling her brother,how much she loved him,shortly before he died.The Brother had gone to her school to inform her, he will soon be a graduate. He never got back to his destination, he died in a car accident. That also reminds me of a story i read somewhere, sit back and enjoy:

One day a teacher asked her students to list the names of the other students in the room on two sheets of paper, leaving a space between each name.Then she told them to think of the nicest thing they could say about each of their classmates and write it down.It took the remainder of the class period to finish their assignment, and as the students left the room, each one handed in the papers.That Saturday, the teacher wrote down the name of each student on a separate sheet of paper, and listed what everyone else had said about that individual.

On Monday she gave each student his or her list. Before long, the entire class was smiling. "Really?" she heard whispered. "I never knew that I meant anything to anyone!" and, "I didn't know others liked me so much," were most of the comments.No one ever mentioned those papers in class again. She never knew if they discussed them after class or with their parents, but it didn't matter. The exercise had accomplished its purpose. The students were happy with themselves and one another. That group of students moved on.

Several years later, one of the students was killed in Viet Nam and his teacher attended the funeral of that special student. She had never seen a serviceman in a military coffin before. He looked so handsome, so mature.The church was packed with his friends. One by one those who loved him took a last walk by the coffin. The teacher was the last one to bless the coffin.As she stood there, one of the soldiers who acted as pallbearer came up to her.

"Were you Mark's math teacher?" he asked. She nodded: "yes." Then he said: "Mark talked about you a lot."After the funeral, most of Mark's former classmates went together to a luncheon. Mark's mother and father were there, obviously waiting to speak with his teacher."We want to show you something," his father said, taking a wallet out of his pocket "They found this on Mark when he was killed. We thought you might recognize it."Opening the billfold, he carefully removed two worn pieces of notebook paper that had obviously been taped, folded and refolded many times.

The teacher knew without looking that the papers were the ones on which she had listed all the good things each of Mark's classmates had said about him."Thank you so much for doing that," Mark's mother said. "As you can see, Mark treasured it." All of Mark's former classmates started to gather around.

Charlie smiled rather sheepishly and said, "I still have my list. It's in the top drawer of my desk at home."

Chuck's wife said, "Chuck asked me to put his in our wedding album."

"I have mine too," Marilyn said. "It's in my diary"

Then Vicki, another classmate, reached into her pocketbook, took out her wallet and showed her worn and frazzled list to the group. "I carry this with me at all times," Vicki said and without batting an eyelash, she continued: "I think we all saved our lists"

That's when the teacher finally sat down and cried. She cried for Mark and for all his friends who would never see him again.The density of people in society is so thick that we forget that life will end one day. And we don't know when that one day will be.

So please, tell the people you love and care for, that they are special and important. Tell them, before it is too late.Never again miss a wonderful opportunity to do something nice and beautiful.Remember, you reap what you sow. What you put into the lives of others comes back into your own.

May Your Day Be Blessed As Special As You Are

Sleeping on duty.

The issue of sleeping is a very serious thing, recently i dozed off while returning from a very busy trip and i started wondering what actually make people sleep without caution.I have a friend back in the university days who can sleep on water,what my friend need to sleep is just a moment of inactivity, i just wondered is that sleep cannot be controlled or people just sleep for the fun of it.I want to hear readers opinion concerning "Sleeping on Duty".

Closer

Today, average lifespan according to a recent statistics is about 75 years.

This means that; If you are presently 20, according to the lifespan statistics you only have 660 months left. If you are 30 years old; 540 months left. If you're 40 years; 420 months remaining.

If you're presently 50 years; 300 months and if you are 60 and above, you have less than 180 months.

Now, my objective is neither to depress nor to frighten you. Rather, I only want you to understand that we do not have an unlimited number of years to live. It's a pity that most of us live our lives as if we have 5,000 years to live.

Fast forward yourself in time, visualize yourself when you'd be old, grey and on your death bed. What are those things that you are going to regret? What are those chances you'd wish you had taken? And what are the things you'd wish you had achieved?

The woman you'd wish you had asked out? The job you'd wish you had changed? The education you'd wish you had furthered.Whatever?

The only person holding you back is you. Take chances and even if you make mistakes, it's still ok. The most important thing is that you learn from them and then do better next time.

Dear all, Live your life to the fullest!

Cheers

This sweet stuff,is a killer

Few minutes ago i was taking a bottle of fanta and it suddenly struck me that what am doing may not be healthy.So i went to Google search engine to find out, what is the effect of sugar on my body,i made a very startling discovery.Read on:

1. Sugar can suppress the immune system.

2. Sugar upsets the mineral relationships in the body.

3. Sugar can cause hyperactivity, anxiety, difficulty concentrating, and crankiness in children.

4. Sugar contributes to the reduction in defense against bacterial infection (infectious diseases).

5. Sugar causes a loss of tissue elasticity and function, the more sugar you eat the more elasticity and function you loose.

6. Sugar leads to cancer of the ovaries.

7. Sugar can weaken eyesight.

8. Sugar can cause a rapid rise of adrenaline levels in children.

9. Sugar can cause premature aging.

10. Sugar can lead to alcoholism.

11. Sugar can cause tooth decay.

12. Sugar contributes to obesity

13. Sugar can cause changes frequently found in person with gastric or duodenal ulcers.

14. Sugar can cause arthritis.

15. Sugar can cause asthma.

16. Sugar can cause gallstones.

17. Sugar can cause heart disease.

18. Sugar can cause appendicitis.

19. Sugar can cause multiple sclerosis.

20. Sugar can cause hemorrhoids.

And many more i actually saw about 146 of them, but you won't believe that i tried to find out the advantages.I saw just one sugar is a sweetener,Period. So think and act

Free or Hiding

This article has been on my mind for some weeks now,i even put the topic down and opened a note pad for it,but i did not write about it for long. I just finished a discussion with my Human Resource Manager now and the urge to write this article swelled up in me.

Recently there was a call in my office for every one to drop one bad habit and pick up a good one and true to it, we started seeing a lot of changes,ranging from use of wrong words to clubbing quitting and all that. I was so surprised at the level of change that,i was moved in my spirit to write this article.Because i asked myself are we really changing or we are hiding.

Whenever people are asked to make a change that will affect their personal life,they have 3 options,it is either they go ahead and break the habit,or they keep on as if they don't care,but the third option is the most common,which is that people will just be more careful concerning that habit wherever you are which is very dangerous.

We should not be ashamed to get help whenever we need to, most of what we keep away from people that love and are willing to help us, tend to destroy us at the end of the day.Remember 'Gehazi' yes that one in the bible,he went behind to collect a gift his master rejected,of course they didn't beg him for it,so why won't they collect it,after all the man's intention is to bless them.Because of that single act he blessed himself and his family with a wonderful leprosy.

My friends instead of hiding that stuff,Pleeeeeeeeease drop it now, it can truncate your journey.

TGIF

Thank God Is Friday.

Dream

When i was a child i dreamt about so many beautiful things, and i was also aware of how great i will become,with constant reassurance from my parents that i will climb heights in live that they have never even dreamt about.

As i was growing in live things started changing from level to level, when i started learning how to drive i could remember my dream car then was Nissan Laurel. Oh God, i can remember vividly how i begged my dad to please get one so i can drive with him,but the old man went for a Peugeot 505 Evolution,so i changed my dream car to Mercedes benz 230 then.

As i proceed in my journey through live my taste for cars started changing and started climbing too,from Honda Allah(1990) to Honda baby boy (2000). I also remember strongly how i prayed to God when my father in the lord bought a Nissan X terra,that God should help me,because i want to drive that kind of car.

But do you know the beautiful thing God did, he was watching and waiting for me to be ready because i was not ready, i thought i was, but i was not matured enough for all those things. Even when i had enough to buy a car of my choice God said no. But when the lord turned again the captivity of Zion we are like them that Dream (Psalm 126:1).

When the time came the lord not only gave me the money to get the car,but he also helped me to get a good deal that i find difficult to understand. The next thing for me now is to move on, for i already desire another one,do u really want to know my next dream car. Hang on with me...But am saying to you today, Dare to Dream cos "Dreams come True",Dream it is vital for your growth and advancement

!OH LORD I THANK YOU FOR TAKING ME TO THE NEXT LEVEL.

Why i write.

When i started writing on my blog,i ventured out with the intent of reaching out to my friends,younger ones,people that know me and accord me respect.As a result of this i have been struggling with writing for long,too long.Recently i discovered that what i can write with them in mind is limiting, because am no longer in touch with most of them, they don't even know that this blog exist,so i made up my mind to let go and unleash my skills.I will write when it is popular and write when it is not.

As a result of this i want my new set of readers to get to know me,that is where am coming from and where am going to. To this effect, starting from my next post,i will beaming some light on where,how and what of my life,i will be telling my story of GRACE because without grace, i would have derailed long time ago.

I will be covering issue ranging form Love,academic,financial and spiritual life.I'm not sure am a very good story teller but i will try my best to make it an interesting piece without and exaggeration nor holding back, i will say it as it happen.Why dont you relax and take the trip with me, you will enjoy it have a wonderful week ahead. Aloha!

Read and Think

READ EACH SENTENCE SLOWLY AND THINK ABOUT IT.

Untrue love starts with a smile, grows with a kiss, and ends with tears.

Don't cry over anyone who won't cry over you.

Good friends are hard to find, harder to leave, and impossible to forget.

Don't let the past hold you back, you're missing the good stuff.

BEST FRIENDS are the siblings with different parents.

When it hurts to look back, and you're scared to look ahead, you can look beside
you and your BEST FRIEND will be there.

Nobody is perfect until you fall in love with them.

Remember, every minute spent angry is sixty seconds of happiness wasted.

As you go about your work today,be happy your best is yet to come.

Life is Beautiful

Happy nu week,this week i want to open the blog with some thoughts of mine and quotes from various sources,that i always read through when am challenged or bored.Take time to read, ponder and act cheers.

• When i expect, i feel tension.when i accept, i feel light.

• Appreciate innocence.Appreciation is like letting the sunshine in.Everything suddenly becomes brighter
  

• Seize the day.

• Aspire greatly.Anything less than a commitment to excellence becomes an acceptance of Mediocrity- Brian tracy
  

• How wonderful, that no one need wait a single moment before starting to improve the world.

• Dream boldly.Nothing BIG was ever achieved, without the first dream.

• A fear starts when you think it,and stops when you don't.

• "Live out of your imagination,not your history" - Steven Covey

• A day without laughter is a day wasted - Charlie chaplin

• A mind, once stretched, will never again return to it's original dimensions"

• Probably you are designed to be outstanding for a reason.

• After any pain,you can choose to appreciate the freedom

• Be peaceful in yourself, and you'll find peace all around you

• The best way to raise your quality of life is to raise your standards.

• You are always rewarded for what you gave not what you received

• Everyone smiles in the same language - Mother Teresa

• Remember to really notice the "magic moments" that are all around you

• Even the turtle goes nowhere until he sticks his neck out.

• Make time for fun everyday.

• Awaken to your ultimate potential.

• We cannot direct the wind,but we can adjust the sails.

• Aerodynamically bumble bee can't fly! Fortunately,it can't read either!

• Isn't it great to know we are all different...and we can appreciate that uniqueness in others.

• With every challenge you may face, whisper to yourself "it's time to grow"

• Sometimes it gets very dark but given time the sun always rises again.

Hmn! 3 W

Good day, how is it going...If you are happy about future thank God, peradventure you are feeling other wise don't worry i believe 2008 have a lot in stock for us all, whether you are positive or you are not sure,just position yourself for the coming blessing because it will stretch your net to a breaking point, hope you are ready for it.As for me i have been taking time to re organise my life,my system and many other areas so that i can attain my desire level in life and also get to a place of honour and Glory. To go far in life there are 3 things you need to be very careful about and they are WINE,WEALTH and WOMEN.This dreaded 3 things of life which the bible also recognise in the book of 1st John 2:16 as lust of the eyes(WOMEN),lust of the flesh(WINE) and pride of life(WEALTH).They are good things of life but if abused they can kill.Please dont get me wrong they are very good, but when they are in control, you can loose it all,if care is not taken.

1. Lust of the eyes(Women)
Just take a walk around town today with your eyes opened though, you will see a lot of half
naked women walking the street,but then i ask myself why are they doing it and the only
answer i can get from myself is fashion. I cannot hide the fact those things causes me to struggle atimes, but whenever i think of it, i ask myself how far do i want to go in life and how far can i go,then alarm will blow just like my Laptop avast anti virus system. CAUTION! Women are very essential in life without them we are not complete but when u are involved with so many you will definately regret it,someone said something in lighter mood that actually inpired this article.He said and i quote: 1. It's important to have a woman, who helps at home, who cooks from time to time, cleans up and has a job.
2. It's important to have a woman, who can make you laugh.
3. It's important to have a woman, whom you can trust and who doesn't lie to you.
4. It's important to have a woman, who is good in bed and who likes to be with you.
5. It's very, very important that these four women do not know each other
So please be careful.

2. Lust of the flesh(WINE)
Paul recommended to Timothy to drink wine for his stomach's sake and for his continuous ailments. The Bible often makes references to the value of wine for health and
enjoyment.However there is a caution in the book of proverbs that wine is a mocker and beer
is a brawler he that is led astral by them is not wise.I would never recommend that anyone begin drinking, because alcohol has many destructive health effects. Physicians simply cannot predict with any certainty who will become a problem drinker."However it is not only wine we are talking about here today,anything you do in life that make you loose the sense of who you are is not worth it,because you will overcome the tipsy and the crazy effect of it,but then When
the dust clear you will regret your careless action.Some people are actually masters in it,but
be careful too much of it may lead to your down fall. Because too much of everything is bad.


3. Pride of life(WEALTH)
Many times we equate wealth with money. I want to say at this point that,you can have money
and not be wealthy but it is not likely that you will be wealthy with absence of money.You can
have wealth of experience and a lots of other things.The caution here is when you get to a level
where you have something that makes men respect and honor you,then we all tend to become careless, we pay less or no attention to things of God and even neglect his several warnings,we tend to make material things our God.But my friend before you take that plunge apply your brakes pride goes before a fall.

To get to the peak is not the issue but to remain there is the greatest work.See you on top.

Happy New Year

HAPPY NEW YEAR

Welcome to my year of "Overflowing blessing".What a time in the year to do this after 17 days into the new year,but it is better late than never.This year i believe will be a lot better than 2007 which was a year of perfection.Now i need you to believe with me that whatsoever the lord has perfected in 2007 will result in overflowing blessing in 2008.Did i hear u say Amen.Then let us walk into the fullness and then overflowing of his blessing hand in hand.

Well it is a little over 2 months now since my last post,this year promises to be better,fasten your sit belt because we have a lot ahead of us.This year there will be a lot of reorganization ,discussions, topics will be raised and many more.Please make sure you are part of everything happening.Have a wonderful and exciting year ahead

Cheers